Hey guys,
Haven't posted for a while, was checking out some of the latest post and is it me or have the number of people posting FRs on this site dramatically reduced???
Come on guys! Lets put all the theory we talk about on this site to action and then analyse.
So here it goes, my two recent pickups which just happened by coincidence.
Set 1
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I'm at a shisha bar (hooka/water pipe) and just after dinner we walked over to the lounge part and parked next to two HBs just having a drink, not smoking.
As soon as our shisha arrived, i turned around to HBBlonde (HB7) and said:
Me: hey, I hope the smoke doesn't bother you
HB7: oh no. Don't worry about it, we dont mind but thanks for being conciderate.
A couple of minutes later...
Me: you guys every tried this stuff before?
HB7: sure.
Me: here, try this one, see if you can guess the flavour...
So she did, and we kinda just picked up from there. Lots of c+f, a little bit of kino. I was paying very close attention to my body language and making sure her friend was kept in the conversation too... you know the usual stuff.
Me: (now talking to her friend) so do you think i should ask your friend for her number and take her out sometime?
HB6: yeh! definately!
So I did, and she typed it into my phone, I rang her about 5 days after, apologised for taking so long to call her as I had been busy and have set up a date for next week.
Set 2
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I'm standing at a bar last night with a friend, next to the cigarette machine.
All of a sudden, this SMOKING HOT
brunette chick walks over to the machine to buy some cigarettes...
Me: emmm... excuse me, you'll need to as my friends permission before you can use the machine
HB9: hahaha... ok, May i use this machine?
My friend: sure! go ahead
My friend: Fash, I see you're back on form
HB9: (looked at me) what does that mean?
Me: well, he just said that he thinks I'm back on form with the ladies, but I've decided to be good tonight
HB9: ooooh is that so? (while walking away towards the toilet)
Me: yep. Who are you here with?
HB9: I'm at a work event and it is so boring!
Me: hehe... yeh, some of those can really get boring
(at this point she was moving towards the toilet)
Me: come and say hi before you head back to your friends
HB9: sure.
A couple of minutes later, she walked back.
I instantly grabbed her hand (KINO! KINO) moved her close to me, put my arm around her waist, moved close to her and said in a very calm and controlled voice:
Me: You never told me your name
HB9: its bla bla
Me: Wow, thats a nice name. Where are you originally from?
HB9: i'm from bla bla
Me: nice. you should give me your number.
HB9: sure, its...... Lets meet for a drink next week. No pressure, no expectations. I hate it when guys take your number and expect a relationship
Me: you know... I love the fact that you just said that. I think i'm definately going to call you now.
now here is the killer....
HB9: oh, and i dont sleep on the first date!
Me: me neither, i usually sleep after the date!
HB9: hahaha! (i saw the little sparkle in her eye at that point)
Kiss on the cheek, squeeze of the hand and she went off.
I will call her on the weekend and set up a second meet next week.
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Anaylsis
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If you look at the two above, I initiate conversation with the girls on instinct within 3 seconds of seeing them.
It came across as random and unplanned. It made them feel that I asked for their number because i liked "something" about them other than just their looks.
It really is alot easier then walking across a bar, and approaching a girl standing with her friends, etc... and the success rate in those situations is a lot lower.
So my advice is...
Go with your instinct, don't plan approaches and stick to the 3 second rule!!!
Fash
Haven't posted for a while, was checking out some of the latest post and is it me or have the number of people posting FRs on this site dramatically reduced???
Come on guys! Lets put all the theory we talk about on this site to action and then analyse.
So here it goes, my two recent pickups which just happened by coincidence.
Set 1
------
I'm at a shisha bar (hooka/water pipe) and just after dinner we walked over to the lounge part and parked next to two HBs just having a drink, not smoking.
As soon as our shisha arrived, i turned around to HBBlonde (HB7) and said:
Me: hey, I hope the smoke doesn't bother you
HB7: oh no. Don't worry about it, we dont mind but thanks for being conciderate.
A couple of minutes later...
Me: you guys every tried this stuff before?
HB7: sure.
Me: here, try this one, see if you can guess the flavour...
So she did, and we kinda just picked up from there. Lots of c+f, a little bit of kino. I was paying very close attention to my body language and making sure her friend was kept in the conversation too... you know the usual stuff.
Me: (now talking to her friend) so do you think i should ask your friend for her number and take her out sometime?
HB6: yeh! definately!
So I did, and she typed it into my phone, I rang her about 5 days after, apologised for taking so long to call her as I had been busy and have set up a date for next week.
Set 2
------
I'm standing at a bar last night with a friend, next to the cigarette machine.
All of a sudden, this SMOKING HOT
brunette chick walks over to the machine to buy some cigarettes...Me: emmm... excuse me, you'll need to as my friends permission before you can use the machine
HB9: hahaha... ok, May i use this machine?
My friend: sure! go ahead
My friend: Fash, I see you're back on form
HB9: (looked at me) what does that mean?
Me: well, he just said that he thinks I'm back on form with the ladies, but I've decided to be good tonight
HB9: ooooh is that so? (while walking away towards the toilet)
Me: yep. Who are you here with?
HB9: I'm at a work event and it is so boring!
Me: hehe... yeh, some of those can really get boring
(at this point she was moving towards the toilet)
Me: come and say hi before you head back to your friends
HB9: sure.
A couple of minutes later, she walked back.
I instantly grabbed her hand (KINO! KINO) moved her close to me, put my arm around her waist, moved close to her and said in a very calm and controlled voice:
Me: You never told me your name
HB9: its bla bla
Me: Wow, thats a nice name. Where are you originally from?
HB9: i'm from bla bla
Me: nice. you should give me your number.
HB9: sure, its...... Lets meet for a drink next week. No pressure, no expectations. I hate it when guys take your number and expect a relationship
Me:
you know... I love the fact that you just said that. I think i'm definately going to call you now.now here is the killer....
HB9: oh, and i dont sleep on the first date!
Me: me neither, i usually sleep after the date!
HB9: hahaha! (i saw the little sparkle in her eye at that point)
Kiss on the cheek, squeeze of the hand and she went off.
I will call her on the weekend and set up a second meet next week.
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Anaylsis
-------------------
If you look at the two above, I initiate conversation with the girls on instinct within 3 seconds of seeing them.
It came across as random and unplanned. It made them feel that I asked for their number because i liked "something" about them other than just their looks.
It really is alot easier then walking across a bar, and approaching a girl standing with her friends, etc... and the success rate in those situations is a lot lower.
So my advice is...
Go with your instinct, don't plan approaches and stick to the 3 second rule!!!
Fash