"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FR: Clubbing Part III

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I just reconfirmed my game at clubs last night. It was crazy, and I got myself a new wing. Here’s how it went down.

10:55PM
We get in the club and chill for an hour, just watching the some football on the TV. I grab a few drinks and call a friend to come down.

12:30AM
We start hitting the dance floor now, and this is when the party gets started. Then I spot some chicks and wing with some guy who I met at the club a few weeks ago.

Approach#1 (2 blondes, Hb7, Hb7)
Just terrible…my girl is way too serious, and seems like she’s about to cry or something. I stick in it though because my wing seems to be doing better…though he doesn’t have much luck either.
We head back to the bar…get another drink, and my wing seems pretty cool…he points out another 2 set that just walked in, and he’s like “ready for round two?” Nice.

Approach#2 (1 blonde Hb8.5, Latino Hb9+)
I chatted up the blonde girl, and he went for the Latino girl…he’s Latin also, so it works. The girls had just gotten in the club, so they weren’t really feeling us that much, but the girls bounced together. It was a good conversation…just basic fluff talk, but I guess not playful enough.

Then we hit the dance floor and just go crazy for a bit. I’m finally feeling the music…before they were playing some really whack music.

Approach#3 (1 Hb6)
I opened with “why are sitting here alone by yourself?” And I got the jokes going early…pulled her on the floor, we grinded a bit, and I got her number and kiss closed her, then left. I wasn’t really feeling her, but it helps me to work my way up through the night.

Approach#4 (1 black Hb8)
Seemed like an attention wh0re at first because she was like…”I can have any guy I want in here, blah” …and I teased her, and said “not me.” She was a tease though, and it took her a minute to get her real name. Then I told her about my “story,” and then I applied some qualifying (courtesy of animal crackers), …she laughed plenty and assured me she never would do that, and told me more about herself. She was initiating Kino and pulled me on the floor. We danced close…I put one hand on the edge of the stage, so we could basically be dry humping.

I left her to do a few more approaches.

Approach#5 (1 Philippino Hb9.5)
Didn’t get any here. But I tried…I need some better openers next time.

Approach#6 (1 blonde Hb7)
I opened with “hey, what’s your name.” And I busted on her for being so formal with the whole introductions thing. She was like “how old are you?”…so ask her, and she’s like “I’m 25.” I say “ah…I was gonna guess something more like 35…but…” and that’s where she kind of nudged me, get a bit of Kino…but all around she’s just fun to talk and joke with, nothing more.

Approach#7 (1 very petite Hb7.5)
The only reason I’m saying she was a Hb7.5 is because she was really small, otherwise, I’d give her a solid 8. Anyway, I’m like “what are you doing way over here by the entrance? Join me on the dance floor, let’s see your moves.” We have a good rhythm. I up the Kino, running my hands along her thighs lightly. While we’re dancing, I just say stuff like “look at the guy break dancing in the middle he’s good, etc.” Just keeping it fun. We go sit down, exchange names, and again I try the extreme qualifying and say “I’m looking for a good girl who doesn’t party much…” and she’s like “no I’m a really good girl, I’m not wild or anything.” Haha, it works. We start making out for like 3-4 minutes, and I run my fingers through her hair a bunch. I get her phone number and bounce.

I go back to the Hb8 black girl…and she says, “where have you been? I thought you left or something.” She was dancing with a few black dudes, but she leaves them and comes right over to me, and we start grinding very close. But I’ve had a little much too drink. Damn…this really messed me up tonight…but I was out to get smashed and have a good time …so I should have expected it to happen.
More Approaches...

I did a few more approaches with some other girls…but don’t exactly remember everything. I know I kissed another girl too …when I kiss, I always dip a little tongue…so, I must have number closed her too. I’m positive I made out with three girls total. I also know that I got a lot of girls (like 3) telling me they already had a fiance? To one of them I said, "that's cool, you're not married yet, so it's all good" and we laughed a bit together. But she was like "seriously, I can't be talking to you right now, he's over there buying me drinks." She had a ring with a big diamond too.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I go back to the petite girl. We dance again and go to sit down, make-out a ton. She was basically lying on top of me… I was rubbing her pvssy, she was rubbing my d!ck. It was fun…and lasted for like 20-25 minutes…She was all over me. I asked if she had a ride for the night…she did, so no coming home tonight. Oh well…I might call her this week.

I went back with my friends, and danced with them for maybe half an hour. I ask one of my friends what time it is…club closes in like half an hour. So, I leave them then and go for a few laps, basically roaming and looking for chicks. I see these two dudes who seem cool, and I chat them up…I’m like “any luck with the ladies tonight?” and one dude is all about trying to find someone to wing with because his friend is a pvssy who doesn’t try sh*t. We exchange phone numbers, and say I might call him for my friend’s party tomorrow night.

I go back to the petite girl, and pull her on the floor…we have “one last dance” I’m a bit too tipsy again, so I almost trip. It’s a bit funny / though also embarrassing I guess when you’re on the center of the floor and other people are watching you dance and sh*t, and you almost trip. I won’t drink as much next time. But still, I pull her back to sit down…make out a little more, and tell her I gotta go.

I did a ton of approaches. I found a great wing who may be throwing a house party tomorrow night…hopefully we can get people to come out. I had a good night, and even though I didn’t take a chick home with me…I don’t know if I’ll call her, but I might.
 
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never mind.
 
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I'm not bumping this to get advice ... I'm bumping this to get you guys who "are alone," are "getting none," etc, to get up off your asses and out there macking some girls. It's not difficult at all. I shortened the FR a bit. You don't even have to read it if you don't feel like it...just know that all it takes is getting out there and putting in effort to get to know people / have a good time.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by h2o
I see these two dudes who seem cool, and I chat them up…I’m like “any luck with the ladies tonight?” and one dude is all about trying to find someone to wing with because his friend is a pvssy who doesn’t try sh*t. We exchange phone numbers, and say I might call him for my friend’s party tomorrow night.
What do you mean you chatted some guy up?

lol. :(
 

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Excellent job, I can add, while I am no Master Club Artist, I still need help myself, but after you grind a chick on the dance floor, you can try to isolate her to somewhere in the club where you two can talk, then try to get her out that way. Just an idea and something I use.
 

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Cool report man. It sounds like you say the same kind of stuff to girls that I do, thats wierd.

The qualifying stuff rules. I think that's a big part of non-flaking. Unless your doing a 5 min pickup (in that case you qualify them in phone game) then girls don't even know why you want to hang out with them, other than their hot ass.


One of the things that you should try is finding a decent girl, and taking her near a shb that you want to game, and letting her see you. I experimented with this last time, and the hot girls open a lot easier when they've already seen you with another girl.


Again, nice work player




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Originally posted by Mr. Cardio
Excellent job, I can add, while I am no Master Club Artist, I still need help myself, but after you grind a chick on the dance floor, you can try to isolate her to somewhere in the club where you two can talk, then try to get her out that way. Just an idea and something I use.
Yeah, good point. I do this usually, but I was a bit smashed the other night, so I wasn't into picking up that much and forgot to isolate.
Originally posted by animal crackers
It sounds like you say the same kind of stuff to girls that I do, thats wierd.

One of the things that you should try is finding a decent girl, and taking her near a shb that you want to game, and letting her see you. I experimented with this last time, and the hot girls open a lot easier when they've already seen you with another girl.
Yeah...when I got the petite girl's phone number, I handed her my phone, and even caught myself pointing to the buttons and saying "these are the numbers...1...2...3, you know how to punch it in right?" It got a big laugh out of her. I think you're the one who said that, I didn't think about it, I just said it without thinking. About the making out in front of another cute girl...that's a good idea, I didn't think about that. I'll try that next time I'm out.

btw, to anyone else who wants to check out more about this "extreme qualifying" stuff animal crackers does...check out these links:

http://www.fastseduction.com/discussion/read?248027,24

for more qualifying...I didn't try this, but you could continue (if she's going along and qualifying to you), "I'm looking for a girl who gives good massages," etc.

Just say stuff that you're sort of looking for in a girl, and see how far she'll try to qualify herself to you. Qualifying is when she's yearning for your acceptance.

good luck guys.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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