"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FR: Club Night!

Taviii

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I dont usually post field reports but the lack of them around here in the last few weeks convinced me. Hope that at least some guys around will get inspiration an will have a nice night out like I did.

Although I was part of the class that organized this party I got there late, but the price of being late was worth it because I was looking hooot. Its kind of a tradition in my country with these party in which couples compete against each other in some funky challenges for a nice prize.

Drank some beers to get in the mood and because of the problems at the front door I went there (tallest guy in my class) to cash the money and tickets. This is where I got my first signs of social proofs while hanging around with the bodyguards :D Got about 20 death threats because I didnt let some people in, so dont do this because its a lot of stress. Started smoking, one after another and kind of got real nausea (I'm not a real smoker) so I stopped drinking because I didnt want to puke. This could be an important fact of that night because I usually get drunk.

Well I just thought: "Fvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvck, no alcohol, chicks are only option now"

Started to flirt with all my girl colleagues, when my girl colleagues decided that I should give the prizes to the girls that won the contest. Did that and got a hug and a kiss on the cheek from the hottest girls in my high school that won some prize while everyone was wathing :D. Fvcking unbelievable---maybe not drinking isnt so bad after all.

This is when the music was turned up and people started dancing. With the mad social proof on me now walking to the bar for another coke was like a little catwalk. Every ****ing biatch was watching me and some tapping me on the shoulder for a little convo :)

2 girls I knew (HB9 HB8.5), but never really talked to them before, approached me and my buddy, gave me a little kiss and literally pulled me to the dance floor. I refused :D Always be in control :D

After my mate finished his beer we went to dance with them. Felt nice with my **** in the HB8.5s ass crack. 20 minutes later we were making out. No talking, no macking, just straight from dancing to the french kiss.

Well, it was going well so far. One guy I knew told me that some friend of his HB8.5 really wants to meet me but is afraid of approaching. He pointed her out to me and I approached immediately.

Taviii: -Hey!
HB8.5: -Hi, I saw you around and I just wanted to meet you.
T: -Well yeah I know I'm hot :D
HB8.5: -Well....yeah you really are
:)eek: what the fvck, I'm a skinny ugly mother fvcker, I expected just a little laugh so her response kind of blocked me)
T: -mmhmm...I'm Tavi
HB8.5: -Randi?? like the singer?? (Randi is some sexy singer from my country)
T: -Nah...I'm sexier than him....I'm TAVI!
HB8.5: -(laughing) I'm xxx
T: -What???
HB8.5: -XXX
I pull out my cell phone and she writes her name and number down.
T: -Listen, I gotta go now, see ya...
*Hug* (after a mediocre convo I dindt expect she'll hug me back, but I just went for it, and it worked)
HB8.5: -Bye, call me!

Well didnt go so good. I'm not a Master DJ yet...

Later on this beauty HB9.5 was dancing with some friends that got their jackets to go home . I approached her some time back, when I did my first approaches, so I knew here. I was just watching her from a place higher than the dance floor and she saw me looking. I smiled...she smiled back so she slowly danced her way to me.

HB9.5: -Hi! Whats up?
T: -Just enjoying the atmosphere. You leaving?
HB9.5: -Yeah my friends are kind of boring, they already want to go home.
T: -How bout you give me your last dance.
HB9.5: (with big smile on her face) -Sure...

Danced for 2 minutes and when I was about to ask for her number guess what fvcking happens. One of her cvnt friends comes to her and literally drags her to the door. Fvcks sake, I really like that girl. Sh!!!t.

Didnt get any sex because the girl that I was with went home with her girlfriends because of school the next day, while I had to stay to the very end. Well business is more important :D got some fair amount of money and had some fun.

Later edit: after reading what I wrote I see that I still have to improve my conversation with girls. Thats:
-more C+F
-make it generaly a fun conversation not like it is now: kind of a boring convo.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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One of her cvnt friends comes to her and literally drags her to the door. Fvcks sake, I really like that girl. Sh!!!t.
You got c0ckblocked. To prevent this from happening, get friendly with her other friends. When her friends like you, they'll just try competing for you.

Overall, good FR! You're learning from experience, and it sounds as if your confidence is really starting to shine. Keep up the good work!
 

Taviii

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Desdinova, thanks for the feedback! I didnt have the chance to get friendly with them this time...

Yeah confidence was at the peak this night, it really works wonders as you can see because I didnt even had to make any real cold approaches.

Cheers!
 
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