AlwaysExcel
Senior Don Juan
Had a fun night at the club last weekend! Dj Mark Farina was pumpin' smooth tunes. My good friends were partying down. I was in a good mood, wandering around talking to girls.
This club is cool except for their cheesy vip area. It's this 6' by 10' area in the corner of the dancefloor that's roped off with velvet ropes and has a couple pieces of furniture in it. The "vips" are basically up in the dancefloor crowd but seperated by a velvet rope.
Anyhow, I had been clowing on this cheesy set-up all night long. When I saw a couple HB8s standing in the vip area, I saw an opportunity. I asked them how it felt to be in the vip petting zoo and ran with this frame for awhile. I petted the tops of their heads and asked them what vip petting zoo treats I could feed them. They looked like they didn't know whether to be amused or pissed. I was having a hoot though!
Finally, one of them said that they both have BF's and motioned toward a couple hunky club dudes who had been sitting there sulkily eyeing me. I clowned the fact that they can't talk to people in clubs without their BF's approval and they have time limits on their conversations. The girl insisted that it was her BF's B-day and that it wasn't cool for her to talk to other guys. I said "whaaaateverrrr!" in a funny way and left.
About 15 minutes later, some big dude asks me whether I called those girls "circus animals." I told him no. But I told him that I called them petting zoo animals. He said that they were very offended and sent him to "take care of it." I was genuinely shocked since I was in such a good mood. I told him that I was just joking with them, that I would apologize if they were truly offended, and left him to talk to them.
I approached one of the girls with an amazed attitude and asked whether she was really offended by what I had said. She laughed and said no. Then I noticed the sulky BFs had gotten up and came over and I knew that THEY sent the big dude. I told them that we were just having fun and they were like "just so everyone's having fun." I said, "I am!" and left. I never apologized to any of them.
Later, I gave a hot dancer a piece of gum for this cool move she busted down in front of me. My friend suggested I throw the VIP area some pieces. I went and offered all of them "VIP gum." The dudes acted confused and accepted the gum. The girls tried to bust my balls by asking whether I thought they had bad breath. I told them it depends, would they send some big dude after me again? They laughed and said no. It struck me that their bf's looked doubly retarded for being uptight AND sending someone else out to take care of business for them. In fact, one the girls passed me leading her BF around the club later and I flashed her a grin. She looked at me with a smile and DBB eyes and her BF looked totally pissed but didn't say shyt. Probably ruined his B-day. Ooops! LOL!
I was delighted with my natural response that came straight from my good mood. I think that my genuine amazement at the BFs' insecure pissiness AMOGed them without me even trying. Yeah, I didn't TAKE the girls from their bfs but it was an enjoyable experience.
Anyhow, that was really just a bunch of social dynamics masturbation. I ended up gaming a cute little 7 that night with a bunch of C&F about her being hippy because she wore flipflops to a dance event. I also successfully used TD's routine about girls as sexual predators and busted on her everytime she gave me IOI's (which just increased them) or when she accused me of gaming.
She tried to play hard to get for a bit too. She denied my first kiss attempt on the dancefloor near her friends. I should've isolated her first but she was rubbing up on me and dancing dirty with me in front of them so I went for it. I used Mystery's line about her ruining a moment. She didn't reply so I turned my back on her while still dancing and eventually left to go to the bar.
She ended up right next to me at the bar! I then accused her of being a stalker and eventually got a kiss and her beer. I wasn't totally satisfied with the way I got the kiss. She asked for some of my water and I acted like it was a huge deal to drink my water. Finally I said that she had to give me a kiss for it. I would've prefered that she kissed me from the get go but she was playing a little and had a little ASD going on.
She broke off our kiss claiming that she had a reputation to keep up and couldn't be seen kissing in public. I started talking about how I liked to break the meaningless social rules out there. I realized that this could easily be taken in a creepy way, so I probably won't say something like this next time or will rework it. It's better to show it than talk about it anyway. She didn't act creeped out though and we started busting each others balls again.
She also acted all disapproving when I asked for her digits but I just shrugged and said "or DON'T give them to me!" She promptly agreed to give me the digits. And after all this fussing, outside the club at closing she invited me back to her house (when her friends were close by!). LOL! Disapproving my AZZ!! I declined and called her a predator again. I was an hour from home and had obligations early in the morning.
I called her this week, but found she was in the midst of a movie. She asked to call me back and I said that would fine but if she called after midnight then I'd beat her azz! She called back like 15 minutes later and we joked around a bit.
However, the funny thing was that she swiftly declined going to the Haunted houses with me claiming she freaks out. I got less of genuine vibe and more of a shut down vibe. She wasn't trying to joke with me about her fear and didn't counter offer either. I was like, "FINE then! I'll get someone else to go with me!" in a fake funny offended tone. I'll call her again in a week or so if she doesn't call me first!
I've lately been going with TD's advice about not being all strict and pissy about girls flaking on dates. Of course, the more they flake and the more new prospects I get, naturally the less I'm motivated to call back. I'd recently given up on calling one girl I met at a bar because of flakiness and a mediochre vibe but she called ME after like two or three weeks and apologized for always being busy.
The night went well and I was very pleased that I have been able to consistently tap into the carefree fun social groove. This attitude, coupled with an eye for natural freestyle approach opportunities, has been working very well for me. I may post a big ol' LR from my vacation when I get time. One of the problems I'm having is that I still overuse C&F. Yet, I'm confused about what else to use in a loud club setting. I'm going to study this more.
Also, not having time for seduction forums has helped. Being overwhelmed by all of the stuff I didn't do or could be doing wrong and all of the interpretations and opinions was really getting me down. Of course, here I am back again, so I better end this report!
This club is cool except for their cheesy vip area. It's this 6' by 10' area in the corner of the dancefloor that's roped off with velvet ropes and has a couple pieces of furniture in it. The "vips" are basically up in the dancefloor crowd but seperated by a velvet rope.
Anyhow, I had been clowing on this cheesy set-up all night long. When I saw a couple HB8s standing in the vip area, I saw an opportunity. I asked them how it felt to be in the vip petting zoo and ran with this frame for awhile. I petted the tops of their heads and asked them what vip petting zoo treats I could feed them. They looked like they didn't know whether to be amused or pissed. I was having a hoot though!
Finally, one of them said that they both have BF's and motioned toward a couple hunky club dudes who had been sitting there sulkily eyeing me. I clowned the fact that they can't talk to people in clubs without their BF's approval and they have time limits on their conversations. The girl insisted that it was her BF's B-day and that it wasn't cool for her to talk to other guys. I said "whaaaateverrrr!" in a funny way and left.
About 15 minutes later, some big dude asks me whether I called those girls "circus animals." I told him no. But I told him that I called them petting zoo animals. He said that they were very offended and sent him to "take care of it." I was genuinely shocked since I was in such a good mood. I told him that I was just joking with them, that I would apologize if they were truly offended, and left him to talk to them.
I approached one of the girls with an amazed attitude and asked whether she was really offended by what I had said. She laughed and said no. Then I noticed the sulky BFs had gotten up and came over and I knew that THEY sent the big dude. I told them that we were just having fun and they were like "just so everyone's having fun." I said, "I am!" and left. I never apologized to any of them.
Later, I gave a hot dancer a piece of gum for this cool move she busted down in front of me. My friend suggested I throw the VIP area some pieces. I went and offered all of them "VIP gum." The dudes acted confused and accepted the gum. The girls tried to bust my balls by asking whether I thought they had bad breath. I told them it depends, would they send some big dude after me again? They laughed and said no. It struck me that their bf's looked doubly retarded for being uptight AND sending someone else out to take care of business for them. In fact, one the girls passed me leading her BF around the club later and I flashed her a grin. She looked at me with a smile and DBB eyes and her BF looked totally pissed but didn't say shyt. Probably ruined his B-day. Ooops! LOL!
I was delighted with my natural response that came straight from my good mood. I think that my genuine amazement at the BFs' insecure pissiness AMOGed them without me even trying. Yeah, I didn't TAKE the girls from their bfs but it was an enjoyable experience.
Anyhow, that was really just a bunch of social dynamics masturbation. I ended up gaming a cute little 7 that night with a bunch of C&F about her being hippy because she wore flipflops to a dance event. I also successfully used TD's routine about girls as sexual predators and busted on her everytime she gave me IOI's (which just increased them) or when she accused me of gaming.
She tried to play hard to get for a bit too. She denied my first kiss attempt on the dancefloor near her friends. I should've isolated her first but she was rubbing up on me and dancing dirty with me in front of them so I went for it. I used Mystery's line about her ruining a moment. She didn't reply so I turned my back on her while still dancing and eventually left to go to the bar.
She ended up right next to me at the bar! I then accused her of being a stalker and eventually got a kiss and her beer. I wasn't totally satisfied with the way I got the kiss. She asked for some of my water and I acted like it was a huge deal to drink my water. Finally I said that she had to give me a kiss for it. I would've prefered that she kissed me from the get go but she was playing a little and had a little ASD going on.
She broke off our kiss claiming that she had a reputation to keep up and couldn't be seen kissing in public. I started talking about how I liked to break the meaningless social rules out there. I realized that this could easily be taken in a creepy way, so I probably won't say something like this next time or will rework it. It's better to show it than talk about it anyway. She didn't act creeped out though and we started busting each others balls again.
She also acted all disapproving when I asked for her digits but I just shrugged and said "or DON'T give them to me!" She promptly agreed to give me the digits. And after all this fussing, outside the club at closing she invited me back to her house (when her friends were close by!). LOL! Disapproving my AZZ!! I declined and called her a predator again. I was an hour from home and had obligations early in the morning.
I called her this week, but found she was in the midst of a movie. She asked to call me back and I said that would fine but if she called after midnight then I'd beat her azz! She called back like 15 minutes later and we joked around a bit.
However, the funny thing was that she swiftly declined going to the Haunted houses with me claiming she freaks out. I got less of genuine vibe and more of a shut down vibe. She wasn't trying to joke with me about her fear and didn't counter offer either. I was like, "FINE then! I'll get someone else to go with me!" in a fake funny offended tone. I'll call her again in a week or so if she doesn't call me first!
I've lately been going with TD's advice about not being all strict and pissy about girls flaking on dates. Of course, the more they flake and the more new prospects I get, naturally the less I'm motivated to call back. I'd recently given up on calling one girl I met at a bar because of flakiness and a mediochre vibe but she called ME after like two or three weeks and apologized for always being busy.
The night went well and I was very pleased that I have been able to consistently tap into the carefree fun social groove. This attitude, coupled with an eye for natural freestyle approach opportunities, has been working very well for me. I may post a big ol' LR from my vacation when I get time. One of the problems I'm having is that I still overuse C&F. Yet, I'm confused about what else to use in a loud club setting. I'm going to study this more.
Also, not having time for seduction forums has helped. Being overwhelmed by all of the stuff I didn't do or could be doing wrong and all of the interpretations and opinions was really getting me down. Of course, here I am back again, so I better end this report!