"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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FR - Closing the Date!!

blinkwatt

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too soon for asking for a date,you should have waited 2 days. you should have initiated a kiss,if you say you were feeling a good vibe coming from her. you ever seen the movie "hitch"were he talks about closing a date?if the lady plays with her keys before walking in it means she is hesitant to go inside,which means there is a reason as to why she would stay outside(to see if you kiss her).
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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themanwithnoname

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I disagree with the above poster, there is nothing AFC about asking to hang out for a movie the next day, up the kino and make out with her the next time.
 

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Originally posted by themanwithnoname
I disagree with the above poster, there is nothing AFC about asking to hang out for a movie the next day, up the kino and make out with her the next time.
I see it as AFC because you want the woman thinking you have other things to do. That you're a busy man and she MIGHT fit in to your schedule. So asking to hang out the very next night makes it seem a little desperate and antsy. You'd also want to stay distant from her for a day or two to stay a mystery and keep yourself in her mind. Longer she waits the more she'll want it
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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