“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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FR: Chick at bus-stop.

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Do I have to do everything? I log in and see cero field reports? Stop bything and go get some rejection. Nike said it right "just do it". I guarantee whoever is reading this has allready more potential than the classic "natural, greatest DJ I've known", much more potential just in the HBs department, even much more potential in life itself. So go out and DJ! Women are settling for no-good guys! Do it as a service for community! Do it for me!!!

FIELD REPORT


I walk home from the gym, and talk to some friends. I'm in pants, sweaty, etc, not looking my greatest, and, tired above it all. They tell me a HB just passed by and is waiting for a bus on the bus-stop. I go for the heck of it and see if she really is hot.

I walk over, and, yes, she is hot. She had on some pants with an inscription of some type, I later on read what it said.
I call home and ask who is there, and tell them I'll be there shortly.

SP Does x bus route pass by here?
HB Yeah, in fact, it's one of the buses that passes by more often.
SP Great! In fact, I use that bus route, but to go to other places. . . . I'm so tired, I just came from excercise, you too right? You go to . . x place?
HB Yeah!
SP Cool! Is that the place that's over there?
HB No, it's actually over (there), I went to the (place you mentioned) but I didn't like it, it had . . . *Something about ballet I didn't understand I can't recall.*
SP Oh so there are many tipes of ballet?
HB Yeah there is *Something about ballet I didn't understand I can't recall.*
*A friend called me around this point, I greeted her and told her I'd call her in 20*.
SP Great, I excercise too, I just came back from the gym.
HB I think that's your bus!
SP Right! Thanks
SP *talking to the bus driver* do you go to x place?
BD No, you have to take that route over there.
SP Oh, ok, thanks!

SP Ok then. A question . . are you a minor?
HB Nope.
SP Ok great then, give me your cell and I'll call you and see what we do sometime.
HB Ok, it's xxx....
SP *Walking away* What's your name by the way?


For the record, I wasn't going anywhere on no bus.


And stop looking at tv and do something productive.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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are you a minor? lmao
translation: "Can i legally bang you?"
haha
 

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Man it was painful to read that. Choppy, not smooth, you weren't connecting with the female. You weren't aware of your surroundings to begin with. Still, mad props for stepping over to her, especially since she didnt give u any choosing signals - so that took some balls.
 
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DJVladdy said:
Man it was painful to read that. Choppy, not smooth, you weren't connecting with the female. You weren't aware of your surroundings to begin with. Still, mad props for stepping over to her, especially since she didnt give u any choosing signals - so that took some balls.
Read my mind.
 

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omg read my mind too dj v laddy u must be good with women
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SamePendo said:
SP Does x bus route pass by here?
HB Yeah, in fact, it's one of the buses that passes by more often.
SP Great! In fact, I use that bus route, but to go to other places. . . . I'm so tired, I just came from excercise, you too right? You go to . . x place?
HB Yeah!
SP Cool! Is that the place that's over there?
HB No, it's actually over (there), I went to the (place you mentioned) but I didn't like it, it had . . . *Something about ballet I didn't understand I can't recall.*
SP Oh so there are many tipes of ballet?
HB Yeah there is *Something about ballet I didn't understand I can't recall.*
*A friend called me around this point, I greeted her and told her I'd call her in 20*.
SP Great, I excercise too, I just came back from the gym.
HB I think that's your bus!
SP Right! Thanks
SP *talking to the bus driver* do you go to x place?
BD No, you have to take that route over there.
SP Oh, ok, thanks!

SP Ok then. A question . . are you a minor?
HB Nope.
SP Ok great then, give me your cell and I'll call you and see what we do sometime.
HB Ok, it's xxx....
SP *Walking away* What's your name by the way?
That was the ****ing **** man! :rockon: I hope she has a great personality :up: You got me laughing with the minor question.
 

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DJVladdy said:
Man it was painful to read that. Choppy, not smooth, you weren't connecting with the female. You weren't aware of your surroundings to begin with. Still, mad props for stepping over to her, especially since she didnt give u any choosing signals - so that took some balls.
1) Why would I want to connect with her? My goal isn't to "connect" with them. Is "connecting" with them your goal? I'll ask them to tell me about how ****ty men are and about whatever tv show is in right now, how about that? Would that be smooth enough for you to read with please? Would that make me "good with women", pucking foster?

2) Surroundings: Bus stop, she wears workout clothes with the inscription of whatever place it is.


3) Why would I want a choosing signal? They all want me.
 

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He said you weren't connecting with the 'female'. You just treated her like a generic 'person', which wasn't bad or anything, but you could've caused some sparks if you took advantage of the hole between her legs.

And he said you were ballsy cause many guys wait for an IOI of some sort before approaching. Take a compliment.
 

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Yeah I'm "commanding" him to do something.
What, you've never heard that saying before, 'take a compliment', when someone acts like an egomaniac when someone is simply providing constructive criticism? Get a clue.

Yes, that's an order. :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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MisterMcGee said:
Yeah I'm "commanding" him to do something.
What, you've never heard that saying before, 'take a compliment', when someone acts like an egomaniac when someone is simply providing constructive criticism? Get a clue.

Yes, that's an order. :)

Your order is my command, Master:

Thankyou very much, DJ Lady.
 

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damn, that hurt..
dj lady - good one bro


2 ppl agreed with me right away.

That was my honest opinion... and what did you expect? A cheerleading session?

go!go! samependo!

feel better now?
 

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DJVladdy said:
damn, that hurt..
dj lady - good one bro


2 ppl agreed with me right away.

That was my honest opinion... and what did you expect? A cheerleading session?

go!go! samependo!

feel better now?

A person is only true to himself and their higher being once they realize I deserve a cheerlead.
 

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what the hell does that mean..
 

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No need to connect with her if he just wants a booty call for later. All he had to do was show that he has balls (not literally), which he did.

Oh and the whole thing you said about there being cero field reports. I had one posted a few hours after yours, nobody said anything in mine though haha.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sam your message is much appreciated I'm sure to the fellas here. I think what is off about your game is you out of the blue mentioned that you got back from exercising as if that is some kinda macho point for you to the female.

So basically you put her on a pedistal to try to impress her.

That wasn't bad enough but you did it again??? Your convo sucked major arse.

It had NO flow to it and wasn't even a convo.

Also I do not understand why you guys think getting a phone number is a big deal. Did you call it?

When you get the pvssy then talk and brag.

But ...

Your point is to just get out there and do something which is 100% good for these guys who ho chase on here.

Good job at stepping up.

To improve your next contact...

Slow down and take your time. Don't do nervous chatter but try to have a real convo. Nerds lack convo skills and that is what is missing from the game with these pua techniques.
 

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So by your reasoning because people aren't spending the time to write out field reports we're all sitting at home watching TV? Hmmm interesting perspective. Personally I was out with different girls every night this weekend and spent the days with the girls I've been dating. I don't have a lot of time to sit down and write out a lot of posts since I'm usually either working or out with someone or finding new girls to actually spend time with. I'll try to go out and get some real action like asking girls for their number in the near future though. Getting the number is obviously the hard part. It's all downhill from there.
 

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TheRealSupreme said:
Sam your message is much appreciated I'm sure to the fellas here. I think what is off about your game is you out of the blue mentioned that you got back from exercising as if that is some kinda macho point for you to the female.

So basically you put her on a pedistal to try to impress her.

That wasn't bad enough but you did it again??? Your convo sucked major arse.

It had NO flow to it and wasn't even a convo.

Also I do not understand why you guys think getting a phone number is a big deal. Did you call it?

When you get the pvssy then talk and brag.

But ...

Your point is to just get out there and do something which is 100% good for these guys who ho chase on here.

Good job at stepping up.

To improve your next contact...

Slow down and take your time. Don't do nervous chatter but try to have a real convo. Nerds lack convo skills and that is what is missing from the game with these pua techniques.
Good to see you back.

I did call her she was going to be in her hometown and then I didn't call her again, I'll call her today. I'd like to add that even getting pvssy isn't bragging worthy really either. In my opinion, it has as much bragging rights as ***** getting. If someone wants to impress me he talks to me on how he was a skinny dude and got big, or how he made big bucks. I don't mean to say that I'm slightly at some part of your level, but I feel I'm in a certain level when you realize that, to most women sex is as normal as taking a dump, and I'm not about to brag about taking a dump.

Kind of in the same subject. I was watching the other day one of those fashion shows where some gay dude and a woman insult someone and their clothing habits. I was thinking, these guys get payed to insult people, make the people they insult to laugh about it, and get people to watch to laugh too... and I thought.. damn! I should get payed to "insult" women! Again, not to say that I'm in a level close to you, but, I feel I'm in a level where all I have to do is just go approach a woman.. and my autopilot will do the rest... heck, all I have to do is wake up and the autopilot takes care of the rest! (Not really but that sounded cool).
Not concentrating on flow, etc.

Thanks for your input, good to see you back!
 
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