FR: Caught girl in her lie

[backbreaker]

Over the last year or so, I have tended to like women a tad bit older than me.. not becuase I can't attract younger women, but moreso because I don't like ignorant young "princesses" who think the world is owed to them and think guys should bend down to their needs.. not that I can't get around it, but it's not wroth it when I can fine someone just as hot, with her own life, car, etc

However, last week I saw this girl that was too cute. She was white/italian, blonde, had an ass you just wanted to sleep on... She was definatly ****able but not s upermodel wise.. too much makeup.

Anyway, she was 19. I talked to her, she is cool. A little on the arrogant side, but hey.

So we exchange numbers and she texts me two nights ago and asks ME what I am doing tonight. I wasn't doing anything, or at least I hadn't planned anything, so I was like what the hell, I will meet you at x at x time.

So time comes.. I don't bother calling before hand.. I mean, I'm me. I don't get stood up.

Anyway, I get there, she isn't there. I am like okay, it's no biggie, not everyone is as prompt as I am. I wait 10 mintues, she doesn't show up, I leave.

So I give her a call today, to tell her how much I didnt apprciate what happened.

Now mind you, dating this girl is already out of the question in my mind, hot or not.. hot girls come a dime a dozen. nevertheless, something in me wanted to hear the bull**** she was going to spew.

And here it comes.

She says "oh I was sick, I am so sick, I'm sorry"



Me knowing that she is lying, I don't eve call her on it.. there is no point. so I say "well, you still should have called me to let me know so that I wouldn't have wasted my time driving there"

So she says "oh, my phone was cut off yesterday.. but it's back on because I paid it last night"



So are you sick, or is your phone cut off, make up your mind?

Again, she is just confirming to me why I am not calling her back, so at this point I'm thinking, damn. guys actually fall for this crap.. or maybe they just WANT to believe her.. because she is hot, but that's about all she is.

Now mind you, she told me the day before she just went and put 4k down on a Mustang, but yet your phone bill is too much for you to pay on time?

Plus, the phone place closes at 5pm.. I didn't meet up wtih her until 10 or so.. that's a 5 hour window even if your phone WAS cut off.

but like I said, winning the arguement wasn't the point.

So then she actually has the nerve to snap on me for not "beliving her" and telling her

Now if I would have actually given a damn about her, I would have snapped and told her to shut her lying ass up before I snatch her ass up talking to me like that.. but I just laughed it off and told her that I hope she "feels better soon" and called it a night


The sad thing is, girls like this.. I can tell you where she is going to be 5, 10, 15 and 20 years from now... She doesn't see it, because she is hot now, and gets attention left and right from guys.. but looks deteriorate.. personalities don't


That's the first time I have been stood up in a long long time... damn near 2 years. I thought it was funny, and unlike 2 years ago, I know it wasn't me.. I played my part to perfection.



On a different note, if anyone has read my old posts, they know there is this girl that brought me to this forum, that ended up being a friend of mine, and I keep trying to get her out of my life, and for one reason or another, we end up talking to each other again... She's like the river in Sidartha.. for some reason I keep coming back to it


Anyway... she's back, and everytime she comes back she gets a little smarter. I guess because she is getting older but oh well.

Get this, I changed my PHONE NUMBER and my EMAIL and she STILL found both. WTF? I don't know how either.. I didn't give it to her. I haven't talked to her since like Sept of last year.

She calls but I won't pick up the phone. She emails the living **** out of me. At first I woudln't answer thoose either but she's a determined little ****.

She keeps reafirming me how hot she is and how all these guys keep trying to talk to her.. but I'm not taking the bait this time. Nope. And she is probably not lying either.. she is pretty good looking. Regardless, I have no doubt that she needs either some money or an emotional pickup.. neither I am willing to give... I guess I am just going to block her email address.. but as soon as I do that I just know she is going to up the ante in some way shape or form. It's like I swear she gets off on knowing she can get me, and not actually getting me... the second I show any type of emotions, BAM.. it's over. I can **** her 5 times a day as long as I don't tell her I like her and I want to be with her

 

[snobby]

You didn't fall for that crao lol...good good. Good stuff.

However, it would be great if you would call her out on it, and show her that YOU are in control, NOT her. In this case she was in control of the situation and that isn't a good thing. You should have busted up laughing and say, 'Are you serious, you expect me to believe this stuff? Well I don't like when I'm stood up, so for what you've done you owe me a cup of coffee.' Normally she will just accept and you will go on a cup of coffee together, and take things to the next level. You have also shown her that YOU are in control of the situation and yourself, and that she can't play little games with you or fool you easily.

But personally, if she starts acting tough and play this nonsense from the beginning, forget her and move on. There are many great, good-looking women out there. Go get 'em!

 

[backbreaker]

which is exaclty why I said **** it and left it be where it is.

If I ever do decide to give her a chance, actions speak louder than words. She will run into me or call me and remember that although I didn't say anything, I moved on.. in mind and in reality, and I am banging other women, just as hot as she is, with her being the last thing on my mind.

Again, why make it harder than I have to? If I have girl A that is 19 and is *****y, but hot and girl B that is not as *****y or not *****y at all and is just as hot, maybe a knoch or two lower but still very hot and she is 24-25... is there really a question?

 

[DJ4Real]

Over the last year or so, I have tended to like women a tad bit older than me.. not becuase I can't attract younger women, but moreso because I don't like ignorant young "princesses" who think the world is owed to them and think guys should bend down to their needs.. not that I can't get around it, but it's not wroth it when I can fine someone just as hot, with her own life, car, etc

However, last week I saw this girl that was too cute. She was white/italian, blonde, had an ass you just wanted to sleep on... She was definatly ****able but not s upermodel wise.. too much makeup.

Anyway, she was 19. I talked to her, she is cool. A little on the arrogant side, but hey.

So we exchange numbers and she texts me two nights ago and asks ME what I am doing tonight. I wasn't doing anything, or at least I hadn't planned anything, so I was like what the hell, I will meet you at x at x time.

So time comes.. I don't bother calling before hand.. I mean, I'm me. I don't get stood up.

Anyway, I get there, she isn't there. I am like okay, it's no biggie, not everyone is as prompt as I am. I wait 10 mintues, she doesn't show up, I leave.

So I give her a call today, to tell her how much I didnt apprciate what happened.

Now mind you, dating this girl is already out of the question in my mind, hot or not.. hot girls come a dime a dozen. nevertheless, something in me wanted to hear the bull**** she was going to spew.

And here it comes.

She says "oh I was sick, I am so sick, I'm sorry"



Me knowing that she is lying, I don't eve call her on it.. there is no point. so I say "well, you still should have called me to let me know so that I wouldn't have wasted my time driving there"

So she says "oh, my phone was cut off yesterday.. but it's back on because I paid it last night"



So are you sick, or is your phone cut off, make up your mind?

Again, she is just confirming to me why I am not calling her back, so at this point I'm thinking, damn. guys actually fall for this crap.. or maybe they just WANT to believe her.. because she is hot, but that's about all she is.

Now mind you, she told me the day before she just went and put 4k down on a Mustang, but yet your phone bill is too much for you to pay on time?

Plus, the phone place closes at 5pm.. I didn't meet up wtih her until 10 or so.. that's a 5 hour window even if your phone WAS cut off.

but like I said, winning the arguement wasn't the point.

So then she actually has the nerve to snap on me for not "beliving her" and telling her

Now if I would have actually given a damn about her, I would have snapped and told her to shut her lying ass up before I snatch her ass up talking to me like that.. but I just laughed it off and told her that I hope she "feels better soon" and called it a night


The sad thing is, girls like this.. I can tell you where she is going to be 5, 10, 15 and 20 years from now... She doesn't see it, because she is hot now, and gets attention left and right from guys.. but looks deteriorate.. personalities don't


That's the first time I have been stood up in a long long time... damn near 2 years. I thought it was funny, and unlike 2 years ago, I know it wasn't me.. I played my part to perfection.



On a different note, if anyone has read my old posts, they know there is this girl that brought me to this forum, that ended up being a friend of mine, and I keep trying to get her out of my life, and for one reason or another, we end up talking to each other again... She's like the river in Sidartha.. for some reason I keep coming back to it




Anyway... she's back, and everytime she comes back she gets a little smarter. I guess because she is getting older but oh well.

Get this, I changed my PHONE NUMBER and my EMAIL and she STILL found both. WTF? I don't know how either.. I didn't give it to her. I haven't talked to her since like Sept of last year.

She calls but I won't pick up the phone. She emails the living **** out of me. At first I woudln't answer thoose either but she's a determined little ****.

She keeps reafirming me how hot she is and how all these guys keep trying to talk to her.. but I'm not taking the bait this time. Nope. And she is probably not lying either.. she is pretty good looking. Regardless, I have no doubt that she needs either some money or an emotional pickup.. neither I am willing to give... I guess I am just going to block her email address.. but as soon as I do that I just know she is going to up the ante in some way shape or form. It's like I swear she gets off on knowing she can get me, and not actually getting me... the second I show any type of emotions, BAM.. it's over. I can **** her 5 times a day as long as I don't tell her I like her and I want to be with her

Oh yeah, she was lying hard too.

"Anyway, she was 19. I talked to her, she is cool. A little on the arrogant side, but hey." Because she's approached by a lot of men.

I'm glad you didn't get mad.

I would have told her " I'm going to get you a "get well" gift....And sense it's no big surprise as to what it will be, I'm going to tell you what it is now.................I'm going to go to the store and I'm going to buy you a dunce hat because you are foolish enough to think I believe such a pathetic lie.......*laugh*.....I've got a great life and you have been removed from it, good bye and 'get well' :crackup: ."

At first it leads her to believe that you have fallen for the lie...and then you bust out with the spontaneous line.

It's more effective when you lead her to believe that she thinks that she's gotten away..and then you catch her...SURPISE!

 

[backbreaker]

LAMO! That's funny. That's just not my personalty. I figure, what goes around comes around.. what if she develops into this great person, and I meet up with her 5 years from now and she is a wonderful human being, but all she can remember is how I treated her (Even though she is the one that lied)

like I said, I don't burn bridges.. just keep my distance, and be glad you are smart enough not to get invloved with this crack***** of a person

 

[JJMcLure]

On a different note, if anyone has read my old posts, they know there is this girl that brought me to this forum, that ended up being a friend of mine, and I keep trying to get her out of my life, and for one reason or another, we end up talking to each other again... She's like the river in Sidartha.. for some reason I keep coming back to it

Anyway... she's back, and everytime she comes back she gets a little smarter. I guess because she is getting older but oh well.

She calls but I won't pick up the phone. She emails the living **** out of me. At first I woudln't answer thoose either but she's a determined little ****.

She keeps reafirming me how hot she is and how all these guys keep trying to talk to her.. but I'm not taking the bait this time. Nope. And she is probably not lying either.. she is pretty good looking. Regardless, I have no doubt that she needs either some money or an emotional pickup.. neither I am willing to give... I guess I am just going to block her email address.. but as soon as I do that I just know she is going to up the ante in some way shape or form. It's like I swear she gets off on knowing she can get me, and not actually getting me... the second I show any type of emotions, BAM.. it's over.

Hey backbreaker,

Whats' up? I clicked this thread wondering if there would be something about that chick! Nice to hear how you're dealing with the situation this time round, sounds like you've got her figured out now.

As for the no-show chick, no big deal right - move on you have nothing invested. At 19, many chicks are just getting a feeling for their "power" over men, and it goes to their head. They act stupid, arrogant and often engage in and respond to game playing. Typically the guide would be don't be too available (going at short notice, on her request), but of course there's an exception to every rule. In this case, if she has a bad attitude then it may not change the outcome anyway. However, if you had blown her request off it might have gotten under her skin and made her want to MAKE you meet her. It sounds like it was arranged over text, it can help to call - you can get a better gauge the situation over the phone (her mood, seriousness etc).

 

[backbreaker]

yeah in hindsight I shoul dhave called.

I remember you, because you gave me some of the best advice I ever received in regards to my old oneitis. I greatly apprciated that.

Yeah, she can pretty much suck a **** for all I care now. I mean, the more I learn the more I understand why she did what she did, and I wouldn't be where I am today if she would have dated me, but it doesn't change the fact that she provided me with some of the worst feelings I have ever had


as far as the new chick, **** her. I have too many prospect and the ability to get too many women to chase this stupid cvnt. I mean.. she is very hot but damn, I don't understand just becuase a woman is easy on the eyes, they think that the world is owed to them.

And if she comes back around, I'm not going to take her seriously. I'll **** her a couple of times, see if she has any hot friends I can mess around with, which I know she does, but she lost her LTR card

 

[backbreaker]

Update:


I ran into the girl that flaked on me last night. Wasn't intentional. I was with someone else. I caught her catching glances at me the entire night. One time she walked by me and rolled her eyes. Needless to say I didn't talk to her or really pay her any attention