"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FR: C&F Rules!

sapphire

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Anyone one who says C&F doesn't work in attracting women either doesn't know how to use it or never actually tried it themselves.

Case in point:

There is this HB9 who recently contacted me on match.com. She is recently divorced and has become a millionare by virtue of a large divorce settlement (I confirmed this to be true) with some big shot business man. This girl can have any guy she wants.

Well, to make the long story short, I decided to use C&F full blast sprinkled with some well placed neg hits and it has worked like a dream.

This girl has been calling and E-mailing me at least 4-5 times a day and wants to travel almost 500 miles to meet me. In addition to that she already invited me to go to Las Vegas with her at her expense. Last night our conversation turned on the subject of cars and she mentioned that she was choosing to get either a Porsche 911 or a Ferrari. And get this, towards the end of the convo she asked when my birthday was and after I told her, she hinted that she wanted to buy me a sports car of my choice.

Now, you think I may be naive and full of BS, but I checked this girl out and she is for real.

She also said that she was bored with the guys she has been meeting lately because they were all predictable and always agreed with what she said. In other words, no challenge and supplicating. She also said that I was a breath of fresh air compared to the other guys because she could tell that I had character (in other words, I am a man with a spine).

Basically, ever since we met, I have been busting her balls whenever I could and expressing my sexuality (i,e I made her aware that I was dating other women).

So, whatever you learn on this site will take you far ahead of at least 95% of the men out there.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tell her not to be so stupid with her money or she will be bankrupt in very short order.
 

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I saw some pigs flying the other day, it was a signt to behold...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I doubt you'd know what she's really like until you meet her in person.

I wouldnt want a sports car either; if things dont work out between you guys....damn~
 

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sapphire,

Bush landed on an Aircraft carrier and gave a speech to the world in front of a banner that said "MISSION ACCOMPLISHED"
 

sapphire

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Originally posted by locarius
Tell her not to be so stupid with her money or she will be bankrupt in very short order.

She has lifetime alimony of $50,000 a month in addition to millions in the bank. I doubt the honey pot will go dry anytime soon.
 

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Sapphire.

If you piss off a girl on match.com or otherwise F with her head she will tell an internet friend to build up your hopes to the highest stupidly believable level just to crush them and teach you a lesson. But feel free to believe what you want.
 

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There is this HB9 who recently contacted me on match.com.

think about it. piss anyone off lately? Yes? Case closed.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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