"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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FR: Boinked some girl after the Cubs game

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ezily said:
:crackup: well yeah I really don't think you're gay. But you have a point about looks. If a woman isn't physically attracted to you then chances are she isn't sexually attracted either. However, stand says he's considered good looking. Thus women will think he's at least moderately attractive.
Yes this was my point a person's appearance mostly cause attraction. Personality alone can't do it. Obviously it's both. But personality is more than what you say or tactics. Your personality is at least partly perceived by a woman based on your appearance.


Therefore, a guy like that needs to portray himself in a way that's attractive. Women like that more sometimes.
Yeah, this is what I was saying, whether a guy is attractive or not he basically has to portray himself and doing or going about his approach toward women in the same way.


Personality is more than just icing on the cake. Have you never seem some fat loser with a HB9?[/QUOTE]

Actually, I can't really say I have. I don't see too many 9's really into a fat loser.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Cubs might have the drunkest fans in baseball. They've got to drink, to cope with the pain of being a Cubs fan. That could drive anyone to alcoholism.

Well done on the FR and the lay.
This isn't even a discussion. The Cubs do have the drunkest fans in baseball. The bleachers are where it's at - especially night games - very rowdy and hilarious.

A little brief description -

5'10 - 170lbs
Blue eyes (my best feature, imo - I get complemented on my eyes the most)
Brown hair

I have an athletic build to my body.. I come from an athletic family - my brother plays minor league baseball and my grandfather also got signed out of high school to play baseball.

I am very charming and have really good social skills thats why I feel I have the success I do.

Sexual said:
I started reading this thread again to find out why it was so long. I thought it was a great story and displayed some basic, entertaining game. Seriously, the L whatever guy needs to get a warning by the moderators. It's one thing to be a troller but now he's throwing in insults about Americans. Get off the board and buy a swastika.
He is horrible and if you look at my other FRs; he is spewing the same garbage in them.

It's clear from having seen this reject post that he suffers from a mild case of down syndrome and has the IQ of a paper towel.
 

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Yeah, it's pretty common knowledge that Wrigley's Bleachers are more of a party than a baseball game. Big part of the reason why the Cubs are so popular.
 

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lmao.

you brightened up my day.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sexual said:
I started reading this thread again to find out why it was so long. I thought it was a great story and displayed some basic, entertaining game. Seriously, the L whatever guy needs to get a warning by the moderators. It's one thing to be a troller but now he's throwing in insults about Americans. Get off the board and buy a swastika. :cuss:
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I don't usually post or read in FR's but this involved baseball and I'm bleeding Red Sox colors so I gave it a whirl.

Stand, you did everything right. Good job. If the chick was nervous it's because she felt a little guilty for her sexuality. This is not your issue to deal with. Don't let it.

And if L777 is sullying your thread send a PM to a Moderator of this forum to clean the junk out.

I do.
I just got into this thread, so there will be some cleaning going on. Give me about 10 minutes. Need food...

*Sigh* I hate doing this...Wait, no I don't.! :crackup:
 

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Ok, cleaned things up a bit.

Also, to remind a majority of you, THIS IS NOT A DISCUSSION ABOUT LOOKS.

Anymore of that will result in the post disappearing mysteriously...
 
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