Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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FR: Blonde chick in hotpants with huge b!tch shield (kiss/# close)

Fash

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Hey guys,

It has been a while since I posted an FR for any of my adventures and nights out.

My cousin is visiting me in London, so we were out clubbing every night last week.

Venue: Aura in Mayfair London

We got there around 11:30. It was still pretty empty since it was a Tuesday. So we sat at the bar and ordered a couple of ****tails.

Noticed 2 HBs sitting on a nearby couch. I could only see their heads at first because I was positioned kinda behind the couch.

I then saw HB blonde (HB8) get up and run upstairs to answer her phone. DAMN!!!! :crazy: She was wearing these tiny jean hotpands with legs to die for!

I waited til she came back and I said to my cousin "I'm gonna go pick them up." So I grabbed his camera and went in.

So here it is, the set:

I approached directly, standing behing the couch, directly between them.

Me: (smiling) excuse my ladies, I need one of you to do me a favour.
HBblonde: (with an unimpressed face) well it depends what it is!
Me: (completely ignoring her and looking at her more welcoming friend) mmm you seem like the nice one, so how about it?
HBbrunette: yeh sure. what can we do?
HBblonde: oi! I'm nice too!

I then brought the camera up slowly, with a smile and said to the brunette (HB6)
Me: could you take a photo of my cousin and I? :p
Both HBs: oh! hahahahahaha

HBBlonde: I thought you were gonna ask if you could join us!
Me: na... you were just horrible to me. I'd sit next to your friend though, because she seems nice! and she sounds Canadian
HBBrunette: Oh my god! you guessed right!
Me: (looking at HBBlonde) and you are English right?
HBBlonde: yeh!
Me: i knew it! only english girls can be so unfriendly at first!
HBBlonde: oi! we were actually thinking of inviting you guys to sit with us a few minutes ago!
Me: yeh right! you're gonna have to be a lot nicer to me if you want that to happen!
HBBrunette: oh come on! join us, she is nice once you get to know her! I promise.
Me: ok, i'll go get my cousin, but I'm only sitting with you guys because your couch looks more comfortable than those stools.
Both HBs: hahahahaha

So I got my cousin. We sat with them, instantly I was getting mad IOIs from the blonde. She looked at my drink and said:

HBBlonde: oh my god! is that a Mojito??? I love Mojitos.
Me: wow! so you DO have good taste!
HBBlonde: oi! i'm being nice to you now! so be nice!

:whistle:

So anyway, they told us that they were waiting for some friends to show up. We then proceeded to take photos with them and of them.

Me: hey, you guys should give me your email. I'll email you the photos!
HBblonde: smooth! so you are using the photos as a way of contacting us again?
Me: hey! i didnt ask for yours! I was gonna get your friend's. She is much more friendly!
HBblonde: no email, you can upload the pics on a site and send us the link
Me: then that means I'll have to take your number!
HBblonde: exactly ;)

wo! That really surprised me! negs actually worked for once!

So I then proceeded to kino, hand holding as I talked to her, a bit of fluf. Then their friends turned up, and she was quite upset that she had to go with them, but she gave me her number.

I got up to say good bye to her, I shook her hand, and she leaned in for the cheek kiss, but we both simultaneously kinda turned our faces and about 1/4 of our lips touched. And the second kiss..... BAM! kiss close! no tounges, just a long, gentle kiss on the lips.

I then slowly stroked her hand that i was holding and looked her deep in the eyes and said

"I'll call you" with a smile
and she replied with a smile "Make sure you do."


So anyway, I sent her a text a couple of days later, and she replied saying it was nice meeting me, bla bla with her email address. I emailed the photos. Rang her the next day, and told her that I couldnt see her while my cousin is here but we should me up after he leaves. She agreed, and we have been in touch since.

Will report back on Day 2 when it happens.

Later dudes.

Fash
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

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[S]alvatore

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Good on you Fash, if a b!tch gave me attitude like that I would slap her rather than disarm her like you did:)
 

Fash

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[S]alvatore said:
Good on you Fash, if a b!tch gave me attitude like that I would slap her rather than disarm her like you did:)
Oh don't worry. I plan on giving her a good slapping, but not using my hands. ;)
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Fash

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Espi said:
:up:

Textbook smooth convo and n-close, Fash. I'm going to use your lines.
feel free to do so my man.

I've got a few more FRs from last week. I will post tomorrow if I get time.
 
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