FR: Bar "Sober Section"

[Skyline]

A few nights ago I tagged along to go see my friends Dad play at a bar. There were 3 lineups, including his dad's band, and it lasted for about 4 and a half hours. I still have a ringing in my ears, next time I'll be sure to bring ear plugs. Loosing hearing isn't fun.

Arrival
Anyway, after we got checked for being under 21, we had X's sharpie'd on the top of ours hands. We were then directed to a "Sober Area" and we basically could not leave without an adult.
But that's okay, because that section was also right in front of the stage.

Where the hell did she come from!?
Me and my friends stood in this area and I scanned the place. Nothing but kids and a few hags that looked nasty along with a few miles in their life.
But then as time passed, this tall brunette girl catches my eye standing with a group of kids/guys. She had an "X" on her hands and I rate her an HB8.

After checking her out a bit, she catches my eye and proceeds to check me out as well. I kinda looked away quickly because the city I was in isn't the best and I wasn't about to get jumped.

But then, I realized that statement I just thought was an excuse and I was actually just nervous.

The Interaction
So after the first band finishes playing, I see her talking to this group of people who were much older than her.
I was sitting down at the time and then she makes eye contact with me again.

This time, I smiled and waved her over.
She was confused if I was talking to her at first but she eventually smiled and came over and said her name was "x" and asked for mine. She was a lot taller than I thought, she's was about a head taller than me. So around 6ft.

I got nervous at this point. When I get nervous, I tend to shake, but good thing there was like a giant cold draft in front of the stage so I could of just been "cold" according to her.

Boring small talk, turns out she knows like everyone there and goes to see bands a lot with her mom. And lives nowhere near me.

However she did ask for my age... I might of messed up here because I said my real age 17. I also noticed a diamond-like ring on her left hand. She never brought up a boyfriend or anything though.

She's 20.

Walking Away.
After some kino, light flirting, and rocking out(dancing? I dont know what to call it) with her and taking a few pictures, I eventually got her number.

I opened the menu to add a new contact, but she exits out and proceeds to Facebook. However, since facebook's search button app for IOS is completely garbage, she eventually just puts her number in it.
She put my name as : "x" then the place's name that we were at.

For the rest of the night(3 hours ish) she basically hangs around me the whole time, regardless of the friends she had there. Some guy she knew from college approached her and then basically left. He wasn't a looker. At one point we get the chance to go on stage and I drag her along. :rock:
I'm sort of an introvert so I wasn't talking much but I was using kino/leading. I knew she was interested.
After everyone preformed and it was time to go. We were all leaving and I went for a kiss close in front of her mom. I got the cheek. :yawn:
Looking back, I should of said that it's "Her turn" once I kissed her cheek and then turned my head to kiss her lips.

My 2 other friends that I was with all said If i was going to "text" her or "try and go for her" I said no for multiple reasons that they wouldn't understand.

Conclusion:
I'm hella proud I got some experience from a tall hb8 20 year old. Even if nothing really happened, I know for a fact my friends wouldn't even dare and it was good experience for when I actually go clubbing/bars. It was also pretty cute how she knelt down when I put my hand on her cheek/neck area.
I'm pretty sure that me being underage had a role in this, plus her mom being there.

If anyone has any tips or pointers for bars I would appreciate the info

 

[TheGambino]

You did well bro, just be calm, dont hold back, try to have fun and try to escalate more. Kino even more if she doesn't back off. If u feel a moment when u having a lot of fun, laughing a lot then u grab her hand and lead her to a corner in the bar or even out to kiss her. When you have the opportunity use it, action. The fact that she let her friends and stayed with you all night is good. Text her or call her that you had a good time, tease her and set up a date.
A tip for a date is: Ask questions, dare her like a job interview you know? She has to get the feeling like she has to work for you, like she has to proof her self, you do that buy asking simple questions like can you cook well? can you give massages? she will get the feeling like i have to proof myself to him. that will make you more interesting.

Another tip: read the whole DJ bible, and Bradd80's maual

 

[Skyline]

You did well bro, just be calm, dont hold back, try to have fun and try to escalate more. Kino even more if she doesn't back off. If u feel a moment when u having a lot of fun, laughing a lot then u grab her hand and lead her to a corner in the bar or even out to kiss her.

I was having a blast actually, forgot to mention that. :rockon: And yes the kino was coming consistently but not too consistently from my end.

I thought about leading her somewhere multiple times, but the excuse that kept coming to me was that there was nowhere to go. The area that we were in was basically a small dance floor with no corners.

But when I'm older and have more room to move around I will definitely do this!

When you have the opportunity use it, action.

Agreed. The first time we made eye contact was a perfect example, I was lucky I got a second chance.

The fact that she let her friends and stayed with you all night is good.

Text her or call her that you had a good time, tease her and set up a date.
A tip for a date is: Ask questions, dare her like a job interview you know? She has to get the feeling like she has to work for you, like she has to proof her self, you do that buy asking simple questions like can you cook well? can you give massages? she will get the feeling like i have to proof myself to him. that will make you more interesting.

Not doing that, she lives too far and I'm underage in this state. I haven't even texted/called her yet. But I will keep those tips in mind!

Another tip: read the whole DJ bible, and Bradd80's maual

I've read both of them multiple times, and I have bradd80's secret guide to becoming a Don Juan saved to my phone. It's just a masterpiece.

 

[zinc4]

sounds like success....not surprising she rejected kiss in front of her mom.i would never kiss a strange chick in front of my mom just out of respect...call her up and hit man..