"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey all, I'm just here to type up a quickie, since I don't pop in as much anymore, too many goddamn road trips.

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Anyways, there's this girl that works at where I eat, and I bug her and flirt with her every so often, over the past few months.

It turns out she's pretty attracted to me, and I owe that to my ability to not appear uptight, appear to be fun, and to act like a jerk sometimes (teasing). No specifics required really, but lets just say that attraction is ground level work, and all I did was flirt and bug her a little, and right now..she's pretty much hooked. :D



To those who can't seem to create attraction or interest..

Number 1:
Give/Transform yourself into a enjoyable (fun) person. Nothing sucks more then super seriousness, or laziness. Live a little.

Number 2:
A bit of cuteness on your part (taking care of yourself, external attraction features (hair and stuff) goes a long way)

Number 3:
****y/Funny and Flirty, or the new theory of CFF, it's a godsave, and fun too!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's kinda hard to write one, because it's little things built up over time...so it's hard to recall specifics.
 
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