Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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FR: Atlantic City

judoguy

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Went to Atlantic City on saturday afternoon.... went out sarging... at about 8...got liquored up.. haha

First open..just waved high this cute asian girl with her family

2nd open

Two Hb's walking by... I walked in front of the group...

me: Opinion opener about cheating
them: No/ Yes
me: haha good thing your not my type
them: haha wait wait (turning to other girl) you dont think its cheating?
me: haha I know which one is the good girl in the group
her: haha NO! Ok where going into this club

me: ****


Next set:

Approached by walking..

Me: Hey come here...opinion opener
Hb's : um no I dont think soo.... it depends how much you like the girl
me: oh wow ... Your those type (neg)
Hb:s hahaha what do you mean...

Then my wing took over and got her number... they were kinda young so we saw them as a last resort....we ejected once he got the #




Next set : approached while they were talking
me: Hey me and my buddy were arguing about... opinion opener...
HB: yes.
me: Oh well what happened was blah blah... i didnt know what to tell them
UG: Ok well y dont you just do more surveys... bye
HB: (Laughing) bye

So we sit down and there is a cute armenian waitress so I start gaiming her

Me: Hey so your our waitress? Why did you take so long?
heg: OH im sorry hahah

so then I had her laughing all night

she was very shy/ conservative... I asked her when she gets off but she said that she gets off at 4 am and is going to bed.

She took out a pen and gave me her number... I called her this morning to meet up for cofee but she flaked of course.



My buddy ended up passing out in the lounge and we got kicked out of the bar... I dragged him back and he passed out in the room so I just passed out also...

It was good practice and a fun night overall.


Things to work on: Eye contact and posture, how to respond when a chick tells me I look young, not ejecting after the ***** shield but rather fighting through it...... most of all disarming the UG
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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judoguy said:
Went to Atlantic City on saturday afternoon.... went out sarging... at about 8...got liquored up.. haha

First open..just waved high this cute asian girl with her family

2nd open

Two Hb's walking by... I walked in front of the group...

me: Opinion opener about cheating
them: No/ Yes
me: haha good thing your not my type
them: haha wait wait (turning to other girl) you dont think its cheating?
me: haha I know which one is the good girl in the group
her: haha NO! Ok where going into this club

me: ****


Next set:

Approached by walking..

Me: Hey come here...opinion opener
Hb's : um no I dont think soo.... it depends how much you like the girl
me: oh wow ... Your those type (neg)
Hb:s hahaha what do you mean...

Then my wing took over and got her number... they were kinda young so we saw them as a last resort....we ejected once he got the #




Next set : approached while they were talking
me: Hey me and my buddy were arguing about... opinion opener...
HB: yes.
me: Oh well what happened was blah blah... i didnt know what to tell them
UG: Ok well y dont you just do more surveys... bye
HB: (Laughing) bye

So we sit down and there is a cute armenian waitress so I start gaiming her

Me: Hey so your our waitress? Why did you take so long?
heg: OH im sorry hahah

so then I had her laughing all night

she was very shy/ conservative... I asked her when she gets off but she said that she gets off at 4 am and is going to bed.

She took out a pen and gave me her number... I called her this morning to meet up for cofee but she flaked of course.



My buddy ended up passing out in the lounge and we got kicked out of the bar... I dragged him back and he passed out in the room so I just passed out also...

It was good practice and a fun night overall.


Things to work on: Eye contact and posture, how to respond when a chick tells me I look young, not ejecting after the ***** shield but rather fighting through it...... most of all disarming the UG

Theres armenians in atlantic city? I thought they only infested california?
 

BMX

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There were tons of hispanics living there when I went a few times. Definitely a good place to practice, because of all the things to talk about, the shows, casinos, how some guy tried to sell me cocaine on the boardwalk.
 

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How do you go sarging in AC?

I thought it was only about the Casinos and hotels.
 

judoguy

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There are ALOT of bars/ clubs to meet girls in

Hot girls walking around everywhere

Not as good as vegas though.....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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