"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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FR; Art Class

blinkwatt

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I know I know,being direct with women doesn't work......NOT!

I was thinking of how to approach this cute innocent looking chick in my Art class.... here is the general idea of my last thread about this

"I'm enrolled in this art class at my extended high school(junoir college),and there is this hb8,cute & innocent that I'm gonna meet her by the end of the semester. I'm a no B.S. guy,if I think it,I say it. Has anyone ever direct approached a chick from class? I have direct approached chicks at work & while shopping w/ good results,just wondering if works in college. I'm just gonna pull her aside,tell her she is pretty darn cute and introduce myself."

It had been awhile since I'd approached a chick out no where but I figured if I didn't do it now I will keep pushing it off.

Here is how it went,got to class,I was stalling all class long thinking what to say,class got to the end,she darted out,I said 'f' it;

hb8;(left class and was heading down the hallway)
bw;(just packed my stuff up and headed out the door) Ppsstt!
hb8;(turned around)Hey.
bw;(walked up to her) Uh oh boy(scratched my head) I just thought that you were really cute and wanted to meet you.(laughing at myself) My mistake,I couldn't of anything else,I just had to meet you.
hb8;(most shocked look on her face)..o.k.,cool.
bw;I'm blinkwatt(extended hand)
hb8;Jenna(hand shake)
bw;Nice to meet you.
hb8;Nice to meet you to.
bw;Hey I have to get going though,I have stuff to do, I just had to meet you though. I'll see you around,probably at class.
hb8;(Still with a shocked look on her face) Yeah I will see you around.
bw;Bye(and I left).

Lol I don't care how many times I made mistakes when I meet her,it was soo much fun grabbing my balls and know that I can approach at any time again. Felt good to get the rust off.

So the next time I go to class I wasn't really expecting much, I thought I really blew the introduction.

bw;(Walks up the instuctor) How do I do the closed composition project?
A-whole instructor; I told you guys 10 times,I'm not telling you anymore.
hb8;(Jumps in) You color outside the picture.
bw;Like what do you mean?
hb8;(She doe a quick sketch,shows me,I ask some more b.s. questions just to 'break her in')
bw;Alright thanks.(I head back to my seat and my buddy and I continue working)

My buddy and I head out and as we leave;
hb8;(just as I'm about to walk out the door) Bye.
bw;(Caught me offgaurd) Huh? Uh. Bye.

Lol I thought I blew it when I met her,guess I didn't.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Damn, I think I need to do the same damn thing with this chick I see like every night at the gym. I keep catching her looking at me and she's always in the same part of the gym as me. I've been trying to think of something clever to open with but I got nothing. So maybe I'll just do what you did. "Hey, I've been trying to think of something witty to say, but my mind's coming up blank. But I didn't want to leave without meeting you first sooo...my name's valleydjing."
 

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@ ValleyDJing,

Dude there is soo much you can do to have fun at the gym if you know someone is checking you out;

-When you make eye contact
--Wave
--Wink
--Lift up the shirt and show the abs
--The list can go on,but remember life is about having fun so do whatever!

Lol,"you're hot,I'm hot,we both know it,so we might as well know each others names."
 

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Good on you for following through blinkwatt. Are you going to take it further, like ask her to coffee or something?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ValleyDJing

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blinkwatt said:
@ ValleyDJing,

Dude there is soo much you can do to have fun at the gym if you know someone is checking you out;

-When you make eye contact
--Wave
--Wink
--Lift up the shirt and show the abs
--The list can go on,but remember life is about having fun so do whatever!

Lol,"you're hot,I'm hot,we both know it,so we might as well know each others names."

My abs are decent, but not quite good enough to show off yet lol! But winking? haha! I might have to try that one.

edit: Then again, its not like she keeps staring after I catch her. ???
 

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danielzxc said:
Good on you for following through blinkwatt. Are you going to take it further, like ask her to coffee or something?
Yes I will keep going and post what happens as I do. This chick is focused on class,seems really nice and is cute=different then all the other sluts I've taken out,most of then were just cute and attention *****s. If I learned anything last year,while approaching chicks,get the number after the first couple of conversations not on the first meeting. I will talk to her some more, get the digits, set up a short date,then if she passes my test then she can have a real date.
 

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ValleyDJing said:
edit: Then again, its not like she keeps staring after I catch her. ???
Dude who cares? If you catch her and she looks away,just mess with her. When she looks away go "Pst!",if you was checking you out she will look back at you cause she knows you caught her. From there you could give her the head nod,the wink,the double bi flex....the list goes on.

You get the idea,just have fun.
 

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I only exchanged a couple of words with this chick today at class. I have one class left for the semester,f it I'm going for the digits last class.:rockon:
 
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