"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FR: Around 20 approaches at the mall today.

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ElStud said:
Yes, I got around 20 approaches at the mall today, which is without doubt, my best record in one night yet. Bad thing is, as you get more approaches, you forget a lot of the little details of the convo. Tonight my goal was to make 'statements', ditch routines, and just trying to get better at being myself. KBJ's will be ignored on sight btw. I can't remember a good number of the approaches, so I'll post the ones I can...

Banana Republic # 1

Pretty sh*t approach.

American Eagle #1


American Eagle #2


American Eagle #3


Guess # 1


Guess # 2


Express # 1

Yep, chick didn't even give me a chance here. I didn't really care though, because at that point I actually already had a bunch of approaches already.

Sephora # 1


Sephora #2


Abercrombie #1



Limited Too


Don't know the stores name...


So yeah, that was a VERY good night. There were a few other approaches that I made that weren't really worth mentioning. The only thing that sucks is I didn't go for any number closes because I was afraid that they would say no.
Based on what You wrote, You could have Number closed most of the girls...

Remember, You have to lead the attraction to AS FAR AS IT CAN GET.. even if you have to Fclose..

You open nicely,,, juss know what you can follow up with... go Kino and into personal creativity.....

Collect the numbers and set up dates STUD
 
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