You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What the hell, I used to not be sure whether you were a troll or not, but now I know for sure.ElStud said:Again I repeat, you guys sound like AFC's. You're totally reactive to what the girl does. If the girl shows ONE bad sign you go "OMG she no like me I must get out of this set". That's AFC logic. There's no way you guys can be getting any, because with your logic you'd never pass sh1t test. Girl says "I have a boyfriend" and you leave the set and fail the sh1t test, just like she expects. Now to a higher value guy, boyfriend doesn't f*cking matter.
lol you guys are such AFC's. A GIRL IS NOT GOING TO F*CKING SLAP YOU. The worst a girl would ever do is yell at you and say "GET THE FVCK AWAY!" even then that could be interpreted as a sh1t test. But lol yes, you guys definitely sound like AFC's. If you're kinoing a girl and she says "Stop!", but acts like she's liking it, you'll probably leave the set because you're scared. There's just no way guys who think like you can get laid.
You say things like this, yet it's you that's not getting any.ElStud said:lol you guys are such AFC's. A GIRL IS NOT GOING TO F*CKING SLAP YOU. The worst a girl would ever do is yell at you and say "GET THE FVCK AWAY!" even then that could be interpreted as a sh1t test. But lol yes, you guys definitely sound like AFC's. If you're kinoing a girl and she says "Stop!", but acts like she's liking it, you'll probably leave the set because you're scared. There's just no way guys who think like you can get laid.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I agree, at first I thought he was just a troll, but this is what he really believes...wow.Lust said:What the hell, I used to not be sure whether you were a troll or not, but now I know for sure.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Let's see, you got 14 posts, been here for less than a month, can't spell and you somehow magically have success. I'm not buying that for one second, you come out of nowhere and you suddenly have DJ success? I'm not buying that stuff. Add to the fact that you don't even have the mindset of a DJ and it's like you are a KBJ. Sad thing is, people actually FOLLOW the influence of people like you, who have no success, but act like they know what they're talking about. I mean that pretty much describes a lot of people replying to this topic, no success, no idea what they're talking about, yet they act like they have DJ status.eXclu$ive $wAggA said:elstud. Im gonna be straightup wit u. U aint gettin nowhere on this frum. you need to iether take a break from the forum and work on your game in the real world (which involves getting number) or go to www.zenmack.com
seriously. just pay the 5 a month. you WONT regret it. I have been on this site for almost a year and finaly decided to go over there. and lemme tell you. it was the best descision of my life.
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Oh god! Really!? Touching her hair that's SO awful. Tell you what, I put my arm around a girl who had a BOYFRIEND, touched her hair, poked her and a bunch of stuff and she was smiling the whole time and showing me interests and she never once said stop.Looks like World War Two all over again...
And I felt embarassed just reading that. I can go and TALK to a girl, and the likes, but go up to her, put my arm around her, then play with her hair? God!
I know you will flame me to hell and back for this but it's just my opinion mate, and no I am not new just a new account in case you are wondering.
"But regardless, I hugged her again and her friend even tried to hug her, but she resisted. So that stuff goes on blah blah, but nothing interesting really happens. Eventually the set went on, but nothing interesting happened and they eventually left."
She resists? Ouch, I would have ejected long ago, you must be damn ballsy to stick in there. Have you ever closed like this before? I am not trying to flame you, but I suggest you look back over all of your FRs, find some successful ones and see what you did in those to be so successful. OR if you have been trying in this style for a long time without any success I advise that you start tweaking your game.
Resistance is futile.. being a DJ also requires something called SOCIAL SKILLS. And thats why AFCs lacking them get called weird and creepy.ElStud said:Yeah, I didn't really think she was interested, but she didn't resist. I even hugged her and she didn't resist.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You sir are on the biggest hypocrites on this forum. You dare call me arrogant? Please, with your whole "I'm right, you're wrong and if you don't take my advice I'm going to yell at you" attitude you have no place to talk. Creepy? Oh you were there? No you wouldn't know because you're an idiot. But hey, if girls smiling at me and laughing at my jokes is creepy, then let me be creepy because apparently I'm improving by being creepy.WesCottII said:I'm going to post this then go to bed.
Stop flinging around terms like you have any semblance of an idea what a social interaction is.
You simply cannot tell people how they're "not going to escalate" if YOU'VE NEVER DONE IT YOURSELF.
You are a creepy, arrogant, failure at the end of the day. I vote for a ban on this tool, this is beyond a joke.
hey.. I already explained why you're arrogant.. haha idk why im still here even.ElStud said:You sir are on the biggest hypocrites on this forum. You dare call me arrogant?
For your sake I do hope you'll be doing something useful with your life, but knowing you, you won't do it because in your circumstances, doing something useful is listening to people's advice. Therefore, you'll just constantly failElStud said:Man I feel like I'm in the Kindergarden Forum. Anyway, you kids have fun now and while you're arguing, I'll actually be doing something useful with my life and probably post a few FR's tommorow.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.