FR: Approach done using the Mystery Method

[BannedGod]

I've seen his 5 DVDs and I find it pretty interesting, I thought of trying to put it in practice, here's a field report. Any comment/feedback would be appreciated

Me: Hey I was curious... Do you believe in magic and ESP?

Her: Blabla (she said no)

Me: Let’s try a trick to see if you’re right. Think of a number between 1 and 4, and focus hard on that number, imagining it on a black board, written in white... By the way, have you ever noticed that when people concentrate on something they always make a unique face? Like right now you’re making a face that reminds me of an sleeping cat... It’s interesting. A friend of mine, who I was helping run his company a few years back, used to remind me of a baboon when he was focusing heavily. The number is three

Her: No sorry, it's not that, blabla

Me: It’s because you didn’t concentrate enough! Focus more, I know I have a nice earring but don’t let it distract you! Let’s settle this with a final test. Same ESP trick but with a number between 1 and 10.

Me: Since *SOMEONE* (said with a C&F voice) doesn’t believe in magic, here’s an interesting question for ya: Do you think Poltergeist is based on fiction or reality?

Her: Blabla (she said it's fiction)

Me: I don’t know about you, but the whole movie seems pretty plausible to me. There’s a lot of controversy with Indian cemeteries. I think you have too much of a scientific mind! Number seven

Her: hahah no! wrong again!

Me: Well I guess our minds are simply not compatible, it doesn’t seem to work

Me: Speaking of ghosts I was driving around with some good buddies close to a cemetery and I heard a song (explain the legend behind In The Air Tonight), neg in the middle with the concentration face again, finish explaining the legend, finish the overall story by (it was in context): If only I could find a way to MP3 you... What kind of song do you think you’d be?

Her: Blabla (weird song)

Me: Wow someone is pretty original! (with a “you weirdo” face)

Thus far I was getting nice IOIs, so I start the hook-bait-reel-release theory, only got time for one though

Me: If you could be anything in the whole world, with no restrictions, what would it be? Really, a dentist? Wow that’s awesome! I remember when I was a kid, my second grade crush always talked about become that! Now I can’t talk to you anymore... (turn around briefly, get more IOIs, turn back to her)

Me: Listen I have to get going now, I did come here with the intent of buying a gift...

And I got her number

Most of the stuff is borrowed from Mystery's video, I can't take the credit for all of it, I just applied his concepts and some of his openers/negs

 

[BannedGod]

well ain't that a *****, I've been judged a nerd by an e-character

bring your negative criticism elsewhere punk, the point of this thread was to get feedback on a FR so either give me some or, well yeah, don't write anything

 

[Matt281]

Sounds pretty bad.

Believe it or not, you don't need to do all this weird **** to get girls to like you.

 

[BannedGod]

heh I guess this method isn't too popular around here and I won't be receiving much feedback -_-

and don't worry too much about me, it's not like I live solely by this method and only use this way to approach girls, I was curious to see what it would look like and gave it a try, it's an interesting experiment, it gives good results, it's pretty fun, I will do it again, and yes I know it's not necessary to do all this, but some time experimenting and diversification brings much more fun into the dating/approach scenario

 

[alwayslead8821]

Nice, hey you got her number and that is all that matters! Stop being rude.. I respect the fact that you pulled all that off, and yes that sh!t does work. Thanks for the report!

 

[Matt281]

Yeah that's great if you can keep it fun for yourself. I suppose the most important thing, after all, is to stay in it and keep approaching until you get the results you want.

The only problem is that a lot of guys get caught up in the game itself, rather than the girls, which was what it was originally all about. Those of us guys who have that kind of analytical disposition seem to just take up pickup as another hobby, fill our brains with material, become addicted to feeling like we have power over women, and ultimately lose sight of what we wanted in the first place: to have hot women in our lives.

Good luck on your journey, cheers.

 

[horaholic]

Whatever works. Its good that you're trying stuff out and posting. 99% of the people here dont do that much.

Personally, those kind of openers are weird to me, but if they work, they work. It got you into a conversation and a number.

Just be careful not to create a false self with that stuff. Its a lot better to be natural about it, but as long as you are opening, its good.

I just think you should have been a little more personable in your interaction. You were bordering on 'dancing monkey-boy' there. She went away from that knowing absolutely nothing about you, except you know some bad magic tricks. I wont be surprised if she flakes. You also didnt throw any sexual intent. It probably seemed a little fake and scripted too. There was no connection being made there, either. You asked her nothing about herself, (except for the dentist thing, but that was kind of fake) and told her nothing about you either. You were just spouting canned material, and not being real. Girls want someone REAL. Thats why i dont like routines. I think maybe using an opener just to get her attention is great, but after that, I think your own personality should shine through. Remember, if you're just being an entertainer, you are supplicating.

You also didnt write how you got her number either, cuz I didnt see any kind of escalation. Did you kino her at all?

 

[Tom Stall]

to me that sounded a bit weird and long winded. would probably work a little time after approaching, but i dont think you can approach a girl with that

she jsut wont be interested

but again, good on ya for trying something!