spider_007
Master Don Juan
there is a tip for all ya lazy guys who just can't seem to push your self to get out there; PUT YOUR SELF IN A POSITION WHERE YOU HAVE NO CHOICE.
In my case, that ment promoting a website in bars/clubs. The way it works is they send somebody to take pictures of people and put them on the website. Which means more trafic for the website (people checking out their pictures) and promotion of the bars/clubs....
If you make that commitment to a job/friends then you have no choice but to folow through. You have to go outhere.
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I had 5 clubs to hit last night, one was closed, and one was dead.
The first one i hit was the most buisy.
as much as i wanted to writhe a whole story about what happen last night, i feel uneasy & UNSETTLED. People said no to me, and i have to learn not to care, and have the body language to go with it. I did a lot of things wrong last night, and not having a busnes card didn't help much eather. Lot of times i had to fight with the loud music just to tell people what i'm doing there.... Instead of taking a whole row of people and going at it, i was standing around for a good hour, looking like a retard. Lot of chicks ware uneasy, because of my body language.... I felt like a "dirty old nerd" asking people half drunk people if they wanted to be on so and so website, and it showed in my body language. In fact couple of chicks asked me if this was for my personal use or if it was for some "adult site"...... I defently need to work on a lot of things.
things to do before next wednesday:
-get a haircut
-get some new cloths. (for some reason i shrink all my cloths)
-get buisness cards from the director of photograpy
-work on my attitude and body language (hopefully the bible can help there)
-start going back to the gym (ne metter haw tired i am and i want to sleep)
I talked to some white-getho-thug-wana-be, and played couple of games of pool with him. two years ago, i would never do that.
In the other two clubs there ware bands playing, so i had a few words with them. One of them even gave me his CD.... this is their my-space account: myspace.com/purpleorange
http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b151/spider007/Picture008.jpg
this chick tryed to stay out of the picture, but i took it anyway and told her she had no choice in the matter. She kept eyeing me down as i made my round through the club. I didn't feel like talking to her.
http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b151/spider007/Picture011.jpg
i promised to put pictures so here are some more. I won't keep them on long though.
http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b151/spider007/Picture002.jpg
http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b151/spider007/Picture004.jpg
http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b151/spider007/Picture005.jpg
anyway:
Things learned:
-if you "peackock (?)" you have to be on the move and having fun. If your standing in one area with your purple top hat you just look like a deprest cloun.
-If you approch people and get rejected, find another group with in seconds (or go back to your friends) In this case, i should have moved on right away to a different group.
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aproches: 28
rejections: 5
total pictures 23
aproches with intent to molest: 0
succes: mild (it's my first day)
In my case, that ment promoting a website in bars/clubs. The way it works is they send somebody to take pictures of people and put them on the website. Which means more trafic for the website (people checking out their pictures) and promotion of the bars/clubs....
If you make that commitment to a job/friends then you have no choice but to folow through. You have to go outhere.
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I had 5 clubs to hit last night, one was closed, and one was dead.
The first one i hit was the most buisy.
as much as i wanted to writhe a whole story about what happen last night, i feel uneasy & UNSETTLED. People said no to me, and i have to learn not to care, and have the body language to go with it. I did a lot of things wrong last night, and not having a busnes card didn't help much eather. Lot of times i had to fight with the loud music just to tell people what i'm doing there.... Instead of taking a whole row of people and going at it, i was standing around for a good hour, looking like a retard. Lot of chicks ware uneasy, because of my body language.... I felt like a "dirty old nerd" asking people half drunk people if they wanted to be on so and so website, and it showed in my body language. In fact couple of chicks asked me if this was for my personal use or if it was for some "adult site"...... I defently need to work on a lot of things.
things to do before next wednesday:
-get a haircut
-get some new cloths. (for some reason i shrink all my cloths)
-get buisness cards from the director of photograpy
-work on my attitude and body language (hopefully the bible can help there)
-start going back to the gym (ne metter haw tired i am and i want to sleep)
I talked to some white-getho-thug-wana-be, and played couple of games of pool with him. two years ago, i would never do that.
In the other two clubs there ware bands playing, so i had a few words with them. One of them even gave me his CD.... this is their my-space account: myspace.com/purpleorange
http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b151/spider007/Picture008.jpg
this chick tryed to stay out of the picture, but i took it anyway and told her she had no choice in the matter. She kept eyeing me down as i made my round through the club. I didn't feel like talking to her.
http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b151/spider007/Picture011.jpg
i promised to put pictures so here are some more. I won't keep them on long though.
http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b151/spider007/Picture002.jpg
http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b151/spider007/Picture004.jpg
http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b151/spider007/Picture005.jpg
anyway:
Things learned:
-if you "peackock (?)" you have to be on the move and having fun. If your standing in one area with your purple top hat you just look like a deprest cloun.
-If you approch people and get rejected, find another group with in seconds (or go back to your friends) In this case, i should have moved on right away to a different group.
-
aproches: 28
rejections: 5
total pictures 23
aproches with intent to molest: 0
succes: mild (it's my first day)
