"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FR: Alpha Male (Shezz story used)

Distant Light

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Well I usually never write field reports but today, I seriously seen how good it is to be a alpha male and how good it feels to be a alpha male. And also I had used shezzler's story about him almost getting a STD when gaming a girl so anyway.

Last night I was thinking of trying out a "Cheat Sheet" and see how well it would work, so I was reading some stuff then I was just trying to get in my head to be an alpha male don't really know why but i did. So I wake up almost instantly ready to go to school. I call my friend who i was thinking of going to school with today but end up getting a ride to school. (Should have went with my friend he had seen this stripper that I showed him awhile back) So before i even get into school yet i'm there yelling, saying what up to all the people i knew. Go in start busting on the security. After leaving security i see my friend talking to this hb8, I knew he wasn't gaming her so I went up..

Me: Yo What up
Friend: What up
Me: Why are you talking to this girl? Her bf is so overprotective he is going to think your trying to talk to her
Hb8: *smiling* I don't have a bf
Me: Ya you do him right there *pointing at some random kid* come lets go talk to him *grab her arm and too my surprise she walks with me*

So by mistake not realizing i just left my friend :)

Me: When you go up to him your going to give him a nice big kiss because he just came back from school.
Her: Laughing
Me: Walk faster I need to get to class
Her: How come I've never seen you in this school before?
Me: Thats because I'm new silly just started today and don't know where room 213 is
Her: Come I'll show you
Me: Nope, I don't trust you i'm not that easy, your trying to get me lost so you can take advantage of me.

Then I get close to my class she realizes that I'm not new and I told her to come pick me back up which she didn't because she says she has a double period. She had asked what my name is but I gave her a fake name.

Anyway so now i'm in class late and notice that were sitting in groups so i sit next to my friend hoping this other hb8 would come to class so she can sit in our group and i can game her but she never came to class. Whole time I'm giving serious EC. My body language was feeling nice this is the first time I was actually comfortable.

Then a hb6.5 friend of mines come in and joins our group so now i'm just leading the group, the conversation which turned out to be real funny and we end up getting in trouble for making too much noise a few times. Meanwhile once in awhile i'm giving EC to this hbDouble D and HBButt.

Since alot of ppl didn't come to school I end up having to lead the group during lunch. I had called this hb7 over to chill with us and I was just being C&F and busting on her, as i knew she liked me already but i really don't want to fuvk her. Then I don't know how or why but hb7 asks me to take a picture of 5 or 6 of her friends in a group picture, gave me mega social proof as the whole lunch room seen me taking pics of 5-6 decent looking girls, that was loud as hell. At this point I didn't really care that hbfakegf didin't come to school as I usually hope that hbfakegf comes that way I can practice new routines.

After went to next period class which I was being the alpha once again and hbbutt opened me. Just DHV she was throwing IOIs at me ever since i was taking over the classroom into my reality, teacher had to end up moving her because she kept kinoing me and because i end up yelling at some kid acting GAY and COVkBlocking.

Then came gym for some reason I end up walking with my friend and sit right between these groups of girls and instantly began chatting up my friend's GF. Then chatted with her friend for abit. After I was about to chat up the 3 girls to my right but didn't bother because me and a friend was talking bout serious matters. I then was telling him about this girl I want to fuvk hb8.5. (She really don't have much body but if you see her face and voice I always picture in my head how she sounds and looks if i mad her ***, She is like one of those innocent looking girls that just got a thing to them that makes you want to make serious love to her over and over night after night) He then talks about how he thinks the samething too how its something about her face that makes you want to fuvk her, so i'm there lieing how i never noticed her until now. (Really she is in 2 my classes and has given me crazy IOIS but I kept saying i'm in damage control and will end up fuvking it up (Over thinking way too much))

So anyway too the highlight events happened after school. In pizza shop and see this hb8 and her ass is great so i immediately go up to her

Did Tent opener and started to bust on her about how she wouldn't date the guy even if he had a portable dvd player and a 2 room tent. Then told her about how I need tips on how to get a girl because i'm going on a blind date in 2 days. Then tryed using shezzler story that i couldn't seem to remember exactly what was happening so modified it by alot.

I had said "The craziest sh!t happened to my friend chad 2 weeks ago. We go to a party and he meets this girl who seems great but only thing she was so foward that i had a feeling something was up, you know that gut feeling that you get, thats telling you to do something. So I'm walking to him and I hear the girl's friend say she has a bone to pick with him and the girl says I've already go a bone and grabs his ****, So i'm there like yep something is up this girl basically wants to fuvk and barely even knows my friend. So i take my boy to the side and tell him not to mess with her because something isn't right. Then his ex gf showed up and told him something about her, My friend thanked me so much,not knowing i did it as a friend not as a covkblock."

After i had finish the story we had already been moving to the seats in the store, she then goes crazy asking a whole lot of questions like

What did he say when she grabed his divk? (I replied with chad saying what have you been drinking and her saying "Your ***")
What did the Gf say about her
If the girl was looking slutty (I replied to saying no she never acted like she was a slut she was very classy looking but was just way too foward so early)

Anyway after about 5 mins after my friend comes so i'm thinking he comes to cokblock because he says wat up to the girl. So in my head i'm like WTF?! and i asked how do they know each other. I find out there cousin's i said it was nice meeting you and left. My friend comes back and says how she thinks I'm pretty cool but he doesn't want me to talk to his cousin which i wasn't going too anymore because it was his cousin.

Then hb8 who was at the train station with her friend I ran some game on her and they tryed to pull me on there train trying tot ake me home with them but I really didn't want too i end up taking both there numbers for the hell of it. Right after they got on there train hb6.5 comes and gives me a hug for the first time ever. Then I'm walking feeling like a big fuvking alpha male. Walk in the train and felt like talking to people but there were no hbs so i just sat there and was talking across the cart to a friend of mine.

All in all i'm going to try out shezz story few more times to see if i can actually get somewhere. Going to start talking to hb8 who i gave the wrong name too. Being alpha feels way better than being beta and also people look at you different. I had got more EC then ever before and for some reason my voice was loud and powerful.

What i do need to work on is stop being a pusvy and talk to the hb8.5 that I want to sex up so many times. I think if i do get her i'm going to end up trying to make her LTR which can slow down my process of becoming a master PUA/DJ. This girl gives me so much IOIs it is no joke I already had so much social proof because of hbfakegf that i don't really need much to game hb8.5 because she is arleady responsive to kino (Yes i have kinoed her but barely talked to her)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hey Distant Light, great first FR. Excellent in fact. Awesome after I kept referring my thoughts back to it... I'll come back in a few days, and I'll write you an excellent "cheat sheet" but you've got to tell me how you want it formatted. PM me, or ask in this thread, just PM me to remind me if I am taking too long, or have forgotten. I want to help you out, you've got a few problems I can see. You bailed too early, on a few prospects. You could have gamed a few girls better than you did. You could have been allowed to let that girl kino you throughout the class(without the prof kicking her away from you).

The only reason I cared, well there were a lot of reasons. Here are a few;
1-I opened this thread. ie-I cared to look, excellent introduction.
2-It's a field report. I love reading these.
3-It was an excellent field report. Gotta give props.
4-It's a field report about Alpha Maleness. OF COURSE I want to read that.
5-You give props to shezz. He is a pretty cool guy.
6-I was in the middle of posting a link(on this thread) and this thread happened.
There is a lot more I could comment on, and give you all of my individual thoughts about each portion of this thread I thought you deserved.

Let's just say, great, but don't get ****y... you need some more work;)

Talk to you soon, whether you want to listen to me or not.
 

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thx, I'm going to pm u on what i'd like because my comp won't go onto the other seduction forums so can't look for anything right now.

Watch out for a FR when i lay that hb8.5 if she just had a sick body that would have been my hb9.5 . Don't know why she doesn't have a bf and why nobody tryed to talk to her. But i know i can get her, she gives IOIs alot and i've never spoke to her. I'm also thinking about learning patterns, SS, nlp and see what type of stuff that is if i throw that in the mix, all that stuff just seem like some type of magic thing that only a few study.

lol so i realize u were joking about doing a cheat sheet for me, freee:D But o well i'll just have to wait for my comp to get fix
 
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Originally posted by Distant Light
lol so i realize u were joking about doing a cheat sheet for me, freee:D But o well i'll just have to wait for my comp to get fix
Thanks for noticing, it was cool you told others I am not perfect as well.

I responded again, don;t know if you saw it or not. I told you the truth though, I'm not going to do it for free, I better know I'm going to get something out of it. I am also not going to do anything, without you helping me, or at least not trying to do it yourself.

If you already have, share it, we will critique, if you can save me time, I can make it that much better.
 
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