"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FR: A Weekend w/ -Prestige-

Prestige

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I know there are a few of you that have been faithfully reading my FR's and I must say that I appreciate it alot. How's about I give ya a little rundown of my Friday and Saturday nites.

Friday Nite: Not really alot happening Friday nite, I was supossed to chill with some broad...I called her and she didn't answer so I said "**** It!" and went and chill with some buddies. We ended up smoking a bunch of weed and playing the guitar and singin' (horribly I might add..lol)

Saturday Nite: Had a few options tonite. Got home from work and the messages were piling up on msn and the phone (I love expanding my social circle :rockon: ). Decided yo go get blazed at my buddy **Derek's** house again and he told me bout some party. We bailed on everybody and went over. Turns out it wasn't as crazy/good as it was supossed to be, but we made the best of it. It was quite a good nite of learning for me. The girl who's house it was , was giving me madd IOI's..so i decided to neg her. I was messing with her bout looking younger and drinkin' water cuz she wasn't of age. I guess you could even say I took it too far, cuz she tried to make me leave LMAO :cool: . Whatever though, I ended up not talking to her all nite...until I went and found her and started engaging her in convo again.. made her forget about most of it.. and we had a wicked convo about how she was raised in Cali and now lives in Northern Ontario..and a bunch of other ****. All was going smooth and I was gonna get the number and then bounce for the evening, until I got semi-CB'd by this little dude.. pretty much beggin' her to go in the other room to put some music on. BTW, how do u guys deal with **** like that?, hardcore AFC dudes but yet they still get their way?.. Oh well though, it appeared that she was friends with a buddies GF so I should be able to swing something that way.

Other than her there wasn't much else except for talking to alot of dudes. I just looked at it as practice really, and I may have even hooked up a second job outta the deal. Got talking to this guy who works at the Health Food Store/Tanning Salon I go to. Said he's gonna talk to the owner and make sure my resume def. get's right to her. All in all, a wicked nite.

Pros:

-Didn't care as much about what people thought about me
-Practiced good convo's
-Experimented with how far you can push broads until they are really pissed..lol
-Managed to recover a PU gone wrong

Cons:

-Took the Neg and C/F a bit too far
-Pissed the girl off enough for her to want me to leave.. my bad
-Didn't get her number
-Maybe, didn't react well or quick enough to the hardcore AFC

**Derek** is my buddy (semi-new) and this guy is a decent natural.. and hanging out with him is actually making me push myself harder so I can be better than him sometime soon.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Prestige

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thanx Shezz.... but im bumping this because i had more to talk about.. just didnt wanna overload an already-long post
 

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I guess we can call this 'Pt. II' of my FR from this weekend. Now that I've had sometime to analyze everything in a sober state, I realize there are quite a bit of places I went wrong last nite.

There were about 5-6 HB's there.. all were HB7's minimum and one HB5. I only talked to one HB all nite, the girl whose house it was. I really pissed her off by neggin' and C/F her... and when I say pissed her off I mean.. she literally was trying to make me leave her house. I managed to talk to her later on though and recovered from earlier. The convo we had was going well topic-wise, but the actual convo itself could have been 90% better, IMO.

Some things I could have done better would be:

-Talk to everybody that was there at least once
-Talk to the rest of the HB's (OBVIOUSLY)
-Not piss the hostess' off to the point wher she wanted me to leave (haha, it was good to learn what not to do though)
-Be more confident and fluid

Now some questions..

1)what are some good comments about noserings that are both serious and C/F?
2)what are some good NEGs for girls that look alot younger than they actually are?
3)when you are at a party/gathering, what is a good way to meet the others?...like just walk up and say "Hi, I'm Prestige...."
4)what is the best way to meet every person that is at a party, besides introducing yourself to them one-by-one?
 
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thederekeffect1

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Prestige said:
Oh well though, it appeared that she was friends with a buddies GF so I should be able to swing something that way.
Good FR, but shouldn't the fact that she's friends with one of your friends girlfriends be a good thing? Think social proof!
 
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