"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FR: A track meet approach.

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MacAvoy said:
Elstud, I tried to PM & email this to you but it wouldn't let me.

I'm not sure if you've noticed but I've spent the past week & a half trying to defend you & get guys off your back. Now for the most part, they are not going to disappear but they've seem to stop yelling & name calling. They have however resorted to mocking you via picks but at least they are not flame baiting you anymore.

However I'm starting to see that your not helping the situation. Your trying to incite them into more flame wars again with this post:



If you truly are looking to improve, stop wasting your energy arguing when its not going to help you improve. Simply ignore the haters and only respond to the advice you are given.

Right now your on the path to becoming on equal level with iqqi. However the reason why she isn't banned is because she actually gives good advice at times. I can't say the same for you. The reason I'm telling you this is because I'm trying to help you and I want to see you improve.

I know guys are hard on you but its because they've been tryin to help you. Remember that. So can you start being a little more mature and not get into flame wars please.
I'm not getting in flame wars dude. However, I do enjoy seeing people make stupid comments and I love seeing people thinking I actually care about what they say. If I wanted help, I wouldn't come to this board.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ElStud said:
I'm not getting in flame wars dude. However, I do enjoy seeing people make stupid comments and I love seeing people thinking I actually care about what they say. If I wanted help, I wouldn't come to this board.
What do you want then? Give us advice?

I'm not here to hate you, I got other things to do, but I won't take any advice from you, having read the stuff you posted so far... You're a very confusing person :p
 

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Credos said:
What do you want then? Give us advice?

I'm not here to hate you, I got other things to do, but I won't take any advice from you, having read the stuff you posted so far... You're a very confusing person :p
Haha, well, for now, I'm just gonna sit back and see who can make the stupid/funniest comment in this thread. And I'm pretty much done replying to it to. There are no useful or helpful post in this topic, therefore I have no reason to reply.
 
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