"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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FR: A set afterschool.

ElStud

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So I'm basically putting on my sweatshirt for wrestling and these Freshman girls start talking to me. Eventually I get my stuff on and the interaction starts. I can't remember all of it, but I'll tell you guys what I CAN remember...

The approach
So like I said, I was putting on my wrestling stuff after school and these Freshman girls start talking to me. When I put my stuff on the interaction begins. I can't really remember it very well or even the order in which things happened, but I'll tell you what I can remember.

- At one point, the girls are just asking me questions. At one point, one of the girls ask "So how's band without us(She didn't really say "us" but the name of the drill team, who's name I can't say here, because I might reveal my school)?". Then I said something like "Haha, it's actually better without [The Drill Team] name and that goes on.

- At one point, I teased Alyssa telling her how she smelt and she basically laughed at that.

- At one point, the Alyssa girl had left, which left me with the other two Freshman girls. So then I basically asked their names and they both told me that their names where Daniel. And so after that I go "So that means you guys would be Double D's then right?" and the girls just straight start cracking up. Then I go "Hah, don't worry I'm not talking about your breast size" then the Alyssa girl comes back and the two girls tell Alyssa what I said.

- At one point, I just freaking grabbed Alyssa and she was like "No", but didn't resist since I did it playfully.

- One of my Freshman friends came in at one point and high fived me, but I didn't really know his name so I was like "Who are you?" and the girls laughed and the dude said "I'm Joey".

- I was like "Well, Alyssa's first in the alphabet so I'll hug her first" and so Alyssa goes "Uh-oh" but I hugged her and she didn't really resist.
And so yeah, that was the interaction. Wasn't really an approach since the girls started talking to me first.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Snow Plowman

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...well you already know what I'm about to say as you already know how I roll...

Chicks open you!? ESCALATE ESCALATE ESCALATE

A chick opens you its ON! From the interaction it sounds like you was holding back kino when they first opened you, when those were the perfect times because you were getting little emotional spikes, so escalating would've been easier.

It's good that you atleast escalated before the interaction was over.

Something you should've done though to get the most out of this set was to KINO from the start and the part where they started asking you questions that was a perfect time to really push the set.

Example:
Girlies: BlahBLahBlah? (Question)
You: *lie*? lol, I'm joking *truth*.
Girlies: BlahBlahblah? (Question)

Here is where you could've pushed the set forward hardcore...
1. Instantly break rapport: Ex. "Wow, you guys are asking alot of questions."

2. Offer Value: Ex. "Are you guys FBI trying to catch me in some investigation...I'm going to have to search you to make sure you don't have any guns"

3. Kino: Ex. Search each of them...(Be Creative, also you don't want to over do the kino on each of them so maybe search one area for each. You also don't want to be the guy who's groping. Just be decisive and don't hesistate wherever your kinoing...its all playful and fun)
- Search the front and back of the waist area for one girl
- If a chick has long hair move her hair exposing her hair and excuse her for looking like the seductress assassin and saying how she might have some pen/knife behind her air
- Check up one of the chicks sleeves

4. Offer more value: Ex. "So you guys aren't FBI...no wait let me make sure, let me put on my x-ray vision to make sure there isn't weapons in any OTHER places...ok carry on"

With that you could've pushed more kino and they would've been all into it. Overall this wasn't bad, minus asking the kid "Who are you?"

:crackup:

That was messed up, you should've brought back up his value by acting like he was your wing and hyping him up...split the group and isolate the target. (Just for practice sake as I know there freshmen's)

The Double D's part was pretty cool, one thing you want to start getting used to is escalating during or right after the chicks start laughing, because they are less likely to resist it.

Also start challenging the chicks more and making the work for your attention. They'll start qualifying themselves to you and you'll get a more solid attraction.

Overall that set wasn't bad at all, but it also had alot of POTENTIAL for being a real great set. (As far as the imagery I see and all the possible stuff that could've happened, FBI being one example)
 
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