"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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FR: A little persistence can go a very long way

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Field Report: A little persistence can go a very long way

Field Report at a Glance (FR@G): Met a girl at a college party, made small talk with her, and proceeded to direct game. Results include grinding as we danced, a number close, a make out close, and fingering her on the dance floor.

Friday, November 22nd at a Southern California University: My friend invited me to a fraternity party with all electronic music. He is a very social guy, yet claims to lack slightly on his game. We basically winged each other throughout the night, approaching two-sets. We were significantly successful getting girls to dance, but a lot of them turned out to be AWs. Long story short, I was serving shots at the fraternity house when I saw a beautiful blonde (HB7), who seemed quiet. I noticed IOIs in the way she looked at me. My friend noticed IOIs on a girl interested in him and cleverly said "I'm going to go dance with this girl, but we have a problem. Who is going to dance with this other girl?" as he gave me the nod (props for an awesome wingman).

We danced a few songs; however, it was difficult to sexualize the connection because of the electronic nature of the music. The girls ended up going upstairs to take more shots and then I saw the girl who gave me IOIs dancing with some other dude. I was upset at myself for not being persistent enough and simply letting them go when they went back to the bar, so I went back upstairs. There they were on the way up, as one of them says "heeeey!" to me. Two of my newly found friends and these girls (now three of them, including my target) then went downstairs. I simply grabbed my HB by the hand and started dancing with her. She was receptive, with no resistance whatsoever.

Moreover, I began whispering in her ear before telling her I thought she was cute. Little by little, I escalated to kissing her neck, then pulling her hair (as I was standing behind her), which culminated in a make-out session. I turned her around to face each other and said "I usually don't do this but I cannot resist." It was now or never, so I grabbed her @ss seductively and then more aggressively. Fast forward five minutes, I had one hand grabbing her breasts while the other one wondered in her pussy (she was wearing a dress). This girl was soaking wet and moaning on the dance floor, so I advanced by whispering to her ear "(name), I want to do things to you right now." I got this reaction: ;). That was when I just started feeling her up without caring that her friend was right in front of me. In fact, her friend--in addition to another random girl dancing--were smiling at me as I did whatever I wanted to this HB; trust guys, girls can admire good game when delivered correctly.

Without further due, I whispered to her ear "let's get out of here," as I began leading her away; she declined very playfully. I tried another time, but received the same reaction, so I went for the number close instead. After dancing, we all went back upstairs and her friend asked to speak to me outside. She explained that she "put in the good word for me" and that her friend's feelings for me were "nothing, but positive," but that she is a very sheltered and inexperienced girl, so an immediate hook up was unlikely (props for an awesome wing girl). To conclude, the friend and I returned upstairs, where I spoke to my target for a little bit. She turned out to be very quiet, but did ask questions here and there--very strange. I said bye to everyone including a few fraternity guys with whom I made friends and began walking home. In short, persistence, along with some direct game got me the girl. If it wasn't because she is probably a virgin, I may have been able to get an ONS. Yet, I kept my composure and did not try to rush it. I will give this girl a call and update on the result! :up:

Side note: I cannot stress how important it is to exercise (cardiovascular and weight-training) to boost your confidence. As backbreaker said "if you are not in good shape, you are missing out on a whole new world."

Keep being money,

-R
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Side note: I cannot stress how important it is to exercise (cardiovascular and weight-training) to boost your confidence. As backbreaker said "if you are not in good shape, you are missing out on a whole new world."
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good report buddy


I havent fingerblasted a chick in a club in aaaaggeeesss!!:D
 

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seriously, people who aren't in shape, cannot possibly fathom how much different it is. it's like willy wonka and the HB factory if you will lol. It's an entirely new world.

I don't mean skinny. I don't mean you played basketball in high school. I mean in shape. It really took me only about, once i got serious, 8 months to get in tip top shape. give or take. that was what, almost 8 years ago. and i was 230 something pounds.

If you can't find a way to hit the gym for an hour a day you aren't serious about this. GUy who wishes he can get laid sits on here and reads a buch of posts hoping to find some new informaiton. guy who wants to get laid takes his ass to the gym and cuts out the sweets.
 

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Thanks guys, I actually used to be almost 220 lbs at one point. I was about 5'7'' at the age of 16. During a routine medical visit, my physician said "if you keep this up, it is only a matter of time until you develop diabetes, cholesterol, and cardiovascular conditions." Given that I have a genetic predisposition for all of the above, I revolutionized my diet. I minimized the intake of sugar, bad carbohydrates and bad fats. I am now ~185 with significant muscle gains and reduced fat proportions.

I have yet to get in better shape, but so far I have seen a lot of women giving IOIs. It's amazing; if you are social and fit, you can get away with free stuff, exceptions to the rules, discounts, and whatnot. It is one thing to describe it and another to experience it. It's like playing the game women do with looks, and reversing it.

Keep being money,

-R
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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