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Don Juan
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So a wing and I decided to go on an epic daygame marathon on Sunday. We got started at 11 and went all the way until about 7. Totally exhausting and probably too much, but about an hour after I had lunch at around 2 I caught a second wind and refused to leave until I had a few solid interactions. I wish I could say I now have something solid to show for it, but I don't. A couple of meaningless instagrams and numbers. One number is somewhat solid, which has a funny story behind it. I also attempted a couple of insta-dates but probably fumbled in how I approached them (James Tusk mentioned recently how Sundays are the perfect time to go for instadates, because chances are if they are at a shopping mall alone on a Sunday they are doing **** all and have free time, which was an intention I had set for the day).
During the morning I was getting some traction with some girls, but for the most part it was BF rejections, and a few stuck-up 6-7's who couldn't give two ****s about me approaching them. Also young girls offer some of the more painful rejections as well. Since they're young they lack social skills and are awkward AF and don't know how to leave the interaction gracefully. Just something I noticed the other day.
At around 2 o'clock right before I was crashing hard from a lack of food I see an amazing looking brunette girl. This girl was about a 9. I approached her and completely seized up during the conversation. She mentioned she was Turkish and I had **** all to say! I could have mentioned Enes Kanter who is in the NBA or how interested Turkey is given their georgraphy between europe and asia. Her relationship with the Armenians in Glendale, etc.. But I had nothing. I realized later it was because my brain was probably dying from low blood sugar. Lesson: Don't let lack of nutrition/hydration get in the way of your game. Try to have that **** sorted out when doing daygame sessions. It is what it is and it happens sometimes though. I was somewhat hungover too.
Afterwards I see this black chick with the most ridiculous ass. 10/10 ass. I see she has a nice pedicure, is dressed sensibly, and does not seem to have any tattoos. If there were ever a black chick I would go for this would be it. I approach her and follow up with asking her what she's up to right now. She said she was shopping for a hoodie and tee. I said given how she was currently dressed she did not look like a hoodie and tee type. She said she was dressed up because she is in LA. And at this my antennas go up and I have instadate firmly on my mind. I ask her where she is from and she says Virginia. We talk some more about stuff and then she decides to walk into a Pac-sun. This is where I may have ****ed up because I followed her into the pac-sun while still throwing in bits of conversation as she looked at clothes. However, I should have maybe split off from her at this point and gave her some space to look at the clothes herself while I perused the mens section. Instead I followed her, which may have come accross as creepy and clingy and started commenting on the clothes she was picking out (i.e. that matches, looks good, etc.). At some point she asked me if I need to meet with the friend I told her I was meeting with earlier. She asked if I wanted her number. I said yeah and lets meet up later for coffee at the starbucks. Took her phone number down and got out of there as I felt that I may have overstayed my welcome. I felt really good about the likelihood of meeting up with her again that day we seemed to get along well and I detected very little disinterest or discomfort from her, but it never happened. Counting on a meetup to happen later may have been ****up #2 because girls are flakey as **** and counting on her to meet up again was a bit of a stretch. Especially in a location like the one I was in where daygamers are prowling like rabid wolves and would quickly seize upon her the second they laid eyes. I should have just said "oh, he's running late r.n. Its all good I could stick around for a little bit. In fact, I'm actually about to go to starbucks right now would you like to join me?" And then proceeded to take her back to her hotel and pump that phat ass of hers LOL. But she never texted back. I might actually text her tomorrow to just ask her why she decided not to meet up w/ me. She might be honest given she's now in another state.
However, after walking away from that interaction and feeling triumphant I see this other chick with a great ass talking to her friend. She bids her friend goodbye after giving her directions to somewhere and I quickly make a move. I open with sorry, I didn't want to interrupt you while you were giving directions to your friend (showing I am an empathic person) and then go with a compliment. She likes it and we begin talking. At some point I go for the number and she inputs it into my phone for me. She mentions she has to run somewhere, so instadate was not an option here. Upon attempting to send her a text I realize her number is already a contact in my phone. I then realize that I have a message log of text messages that I had already sent her. At this point I'm just like what is going on!? And then it hit me, I had already approached this chick and got her number at a totally different location in LA! She didn't respond to my texts last time. I thought she would have realized this and then realized I was the guy that she ghosted. But apparently it was such a hard no last time that she must have deleted my message log, so she had no record of my previous interaction with her. We've been texting a bit back and forth today, but she's no longer responding. I even brought up our previous interaction, but she does not seem to remember.
Then I bounced to another location and got one of the most rude rejections I have ever received. Tattoo'd black chick and against my better judgement I decided to approach because she was past her prime and figured she might be open. Nope. I go up to her and the second she sees me she takes a step back and raises her finger and says "don't talk to me". I'm just like "what?". She repeats herself "don't talk to me". And to this I simply said "okay" and walked away. Their were onlookers and it was somewhat of a scene. Kind of took me out of state tbh, but I made a few more approaches and got rejected, but at least they were appreciative and polite and that brought me back to life somewhat.
Last one was a borderline retarded ADHD lightskin black chick at wholefoods. She was stupid hot though about a 9. I open her and very lukewarm interest, but she's still standing there. So I continue talking about her choice of vegan frozen foods. We then sort of have a conversation about meat and ethics, but she's too retarded to carry out an actual conversation. She just says **** like "omg, I would never." in regards to eating meat. And then she walks away almost as if she's rejecting me, and then comes back. At some point I realize this girl is a space cadet and I kind of get tired of her ****. I'm about to walk away from her and then she says "wait, are you going?", which was a strong sign of interest and I stick it out and continue attempting to have a conversation with her. We hang out a whole foods for a good 15mins. Later on I find she has legit adhd and is on adderall and she doesn't take any on that day. I try to go for the instadate but she says she wants to go home. I let her go and will probably never hear from her again. Just a weird, ****ed up hot LA chick I guess. I was practically dead at this point anyway.
Lastly I've been texting this girl who I met in a very brief interaction and who's number I got the other day. I'm starting to realize that sometimes texting back and forth is necessary with approaches from daygame, especially if the interactions are on the shorter side. Online dating interactions I usually keep intentionally short, because there are so many time wasters and girls are already interested in dating anyway. No need for long interactions with them. However, for cold approach, I'm basically a guy who they met off the street who they met in a very unorthodox way. They probably want to know a little bit about me for comfort purposes via text. Some girls hate texting though, so its a mixed bag. Maybe erring on the side of overtexting and dialing back if they take long to respond is the move.
Lesson: texting after cold approach may be necessary.
Tattoos on black chicks can be a red flag. Especially if they have somewhat of a trashy look about them.
When going for the instadate, try not to meet up later, try to make it happen right then and there.
During the morning I was getting some traction with some girls, but for the most part it was BF rejections, and a few stuck-up 6-7's who couldn't give two ****s about me approaching them. Also young girls offer some of the more painful rejections as well. Since they're young they lack social skills and are awkward AF and don't know how to leave the interaction gracefully. Just something I noticed the other day.
At around 2 o'clock right before I was crashing hard from a lack of food I see an amazing looking brunette girl. This girl was about a 9. I approached her and completely seized up during the conversation. She mentioned she was Turkish and I had **** all to say! I could have mentioned Enes Kanter who is in the NBA or how interested Turkey is given their georgraphy between europe and asia. Her relationship with the Armenians in Glendale, etc.. But I had nothing. I realized later it was because my brain was probably dying from low blood sugar. Lesson: Don't let lack of nutrition/hydration get in the way of your game. Try to have that **** sorted out when doing daygame sessions. It is what it is and it happens sometimes though. I was somewhat hungover too.
Afterwards I see this black chick with the most ridiculous ass. 10/10 ass. I see she has a nice pedicure, is dressed sensibly, and does not seem to have any tattoos. If there were ever a black chick I would go for this would be it. I approach her and follow up with asking her what she's up to right now. She said she was shopping for a hoodie and tee. I said given how she was currently dressed she did not look like a hoodie and tee type. She said she was dressed up because she is in LA. And at this my antennas go up and I have instadate firmly on my mind. I ask her where she is from and she says Virginia. We talk some more about stuff and then she decides to walk into a Pac-sun. This is where I may have ****ed up because I followed her into the pac-sun while still throwing in bits of conversation as she looked at clothes. However, I should have maybe split off from her at this point and gave her some space to look at the clothes herself while I perused the mens section. Instead I followed her, which may have come accross as creepy and clingy and started commenting on the clothes she was picking out (i.e. that matches, looks good, etc.). At some point she asked me if I need to meet with the friend I told her I was meeting with earlier. She asked if I wanted her number. I said yeah and lets meet up later for coffee at the starbucks. Took her phone number down and got out of there as I felt that I may have overstayed my welcome. I felt really good about the likelihood of meeting up with her again that day we seemed to get along well and I detected very little disinterest or discomfort from her, but it never happened. Counting on a meetup to happen later may have been ****up #2 because girls are flakey as **** and counting on her to meet up again was a bit of a stretch. Especially in a location like the one I was in where daygamers are prowling like rabid wolves and would quickly seize upon her the second they laid eyes. I should have just said "oh, he's running late r.n. Its all good I could stick around for a little bit. In fact, I'm actually about to go to starbucks right now would you like to join me?" And then proceeded to take her back to her hotel and pump that phat ass of hers LOL. But she never texted back. I might actually text her tomorrow to just ask her why she decided not to meet up w/ me. She might be honest given she's now in another state.
However, after walking away from that interaction and feeling triumphant I see this other chick with a great ass talking to her friend. She bids her friend goodbye after giving her directions to somewhere and I quickly make a move. I open with sorry, I didn't want to interrupt you while you were giving directions to your friend (showing I am an empathic person) and then go with a compliment. She likes it and we begin talking. At some point I go for the number and she inputs it into my phone for me. She mentions she has to run somewhere, so instadate was not an option here. Upon attempting to send her a text I realize her number is already a contact in my phone. I then realize that I have a message log of text messages that I had already sent her. At this point I'm just like what is going on!? And then it hit me, I had already approached this chick and got her number at a totally different location in LA! She didn't respond to my texts last time. I thought she would have realized this and then realized I was the guy that she ghosted. But apparently it was such a hard no last time that she must have deleted my message log, so she had no record of my previous interaction with her. We've been texting a bit back and forth today, but she's no longer responding. I even brought up our previous interaction, but she does not seem to remember.
Then I bounced to another location and got one of the most rude rejections I have ever received. Tattoo'd black chick and against my better judgement I decided to approach because she was past her prime and figured she might be open. Nope. I go up to her and the second she sees me she takes a step back and raises her finger and says "don't talk to me". I'm just like "what?". She repeats herself "don't talk to me". And to this I simply said "okay" and walked away. Their were onlookers and it was somewhat of a scene. Kind of took me out of state tbh, but I made a few more approaches and got rejected, but at least they were appreciative and polite and that brought me back to life somewhat.
Last one was a borderline retarded ADHD lightskin black chick at wholefoods. She was stupid hot though about a 9. I open her and very lukewarm interest, but she's still standing there. So I continue talking about her choice of vegan frozen foods. We then sort of have a conversation about meat and ethics, but she's too retarded to carry out an actual conversation. She just says **** like "omg, I would never." in regards to eating meat. And then she walks away almost as if she's rejecting me, and then comes back. At some point I realize this girl is a space cadet and I kind of get tired of her ****. I'm about to walk away from her and then she says "wait, are you going?", which was a strong sign of interest and I stick it out and continue attempting to have a conversation with her. We hang out a whole foods for a good 15mins. Later on I find she has legit adhd and is on adderall and she doesn't take any on that day. I try to go for the instadate but she says she wants to go home. I let her go and will probably never hear from her again. Just a weird, ****ed up hot LA chick I guess. I was practically dead at this point anyway.
Lastly I've been texting this girl who I met in a very brief interaction and who's number I got the other day. I'm starting to realize that sometimes texting back and forth is necessary with approaches from daygame, especially if the interactions are on the shorter side. Online dating interactions I usually keep intentionally short, because there are so many time wasters and girls are already interested in dating anyway. No need for long interactions with them. However, for cold approach, I'm basically a guy who they met off the street who they met in a very unorthodox way. They probably want to know a little bit about me for comfort purposes via text. Some girls hate texting though, so its a mixed bag. Maybe erring on the side of overtexting and dialing back if they take long to respond is the move.
Lesson: texting after cold approach may be necessary.
Tattoos on black chicks can be a red flag. Especially if they have somewhat of a trashy look about them.
When going for the instadate, try not to meet up later, try to make it happen right then and there.
