"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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FR: 2nd date, 2nd base

Asian_Spice

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We went out last Saturday night, I called her Tuesday for a Friday night date. 1st date was going to the Mall and movies, ended with a quick kiss on lips.

2nd Date:

My expectations coming into this was to make out. She lives near my school apartment, and I moved a lot of stuff out into my family's home so I can be there for Christmas break. She's pretty conservative, and I felt the most I could get without isolating was to make out.

6PM we meet up near my school and I take her to a nice dinner. That lasted about hr and half. Then I took her to a park/ice skating. We skated on and off for about an hour. By this point she's comfortable with me touching her, and we held hands the entire time.

I told her we're done with ice skating and we walk around the park. We're sitting on a rock near the pond. I leaned over and make out with her. ****kkkk she's bad at making out. She's a conservative girl, but it really felt like it was her first time kissing.

Anyways we go back to my car. At this point I don't know what to do. It's 10PM and she's free till 12AM. I'm craving some ice cream so I tell her we're going to get some ice cream. Then out of nowhere the DJ in me comes in. "What the **** are you doing going for ice cream, take her back to your place and **** her!"

I take her to my apartment. Shes like "I thought we were goign to get ice cream". So I joke around, "Yea I meant ice cream in my apartment if my roommates haven't eaten all of it." I show her around the place and we talk.

I kiss her a little bit, and we climb onto the bed. Now this is roughly what happened, I use the same moves on every girl so after a while you sorta know what you're doing.

Make out, then I go for necking
Make out, go for the ear
Make out, go for the neck
Make out, I reach my hand for the boob REJECTED~
Cuddle
Make out, neck blah blah
Reach for the boob Rejected
Make out, neck ear, blah blah
Reach for the boob Rejected

So I kept getting LMR from her. At this point there's a lot of tings you can do. Mystery's freeze out, keep doing it until she gives in. What I did was I asked her "What's wrong"

She buried her face in my chest and didn't say anything. So I said "Come on are you shy? Don't be you're beautiful, let's just have a good time okay?"

Make out, neck, ear, reach for the boob, I"M IN!
played with it a bit, sucked on it.

She has on jeans so I'm rubbing between her legs for about 10 seconds. Then she took my hand away. I asked her if it felt good, she say's it feels too good, that's the problem.

Anyways she told me she's a virgin so I think I did pretty good for 2nd date.

I already ****ed my oneitis earlier this week (Search for my FR), so this girl's kinda a bonus. My confidence is seriously at a high right now. You know you went from AFC to DJ when you don't wonder if she likes you or not, and instead you wonder which girl you like the most.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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oakraiderz2

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That made me smile; its exactly what i like to see.
 

havybastard

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haha way to persist

few shots of voddy and she will be spread eagled next time
 

LA_Chico

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yea bro, good job!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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