Went to happy hour Thursday with my coworkers, ended up at the end of the night with the new 22 year old intern who is returning back to Europe next month. After some drinks and losing in pool (I swear, she's a pool hustler), we ended up making out in her drive way and with me getting a bj. She's been sending me sweet little "thinking about you, can't wait to see you" texts for the last two days. I've been out of town until today and she's busy with family. Red heads are my weakness, I admit it.
A few details:
-She didn't invite me in, as she lives with her parents while they are here in the states.
-There is no rules at work about dating interns. It's neither frowned apon or cheered on. I personally don't date them, it just ended up being a quasi random drunk hook up...the point is, I wasn't activily gaming her, but I wasn't acting like an AFC like the other coworkers fawning all over her and putting her on a pedestal.
-After having some deep conversations with her...I see she's really just a shy, insecure girl, but she's also a complete freak who loves the D. Apparently she's into bondage and spankings. She likes to present the image of a nice and proper little princess.
-She thinks I'm a bad boy because I'm pretty outspoken at work. I don't tip toe around and I'm ambitious..also I have a slightly checkered past that people have told her about me. I drive a sports car and wear a leather jacket and jeans to work. While everyone else wears corporatewear. I'm in production..we don't have to kowtow to corporate fashion.
-She thought she was too plain and boring for me to be interested in her (I am a 7 on a good day, and I'd put her at 7, but after really getting to know her I see she feels like she's a 4 or 5).
-She was dating another European guy from her country here...but he was completely AFC. Posting constantly on her facebook, inviting her out all the time, constantly trying to get in good with her stepfather..she felt pressured with him. He's a great looking guy, 23 tall athletic, football (soccer) player here in the states on scholarship. I've met him before, he's a good guy.
-She was impressed with my knowledge of her country and customs. I have friends from there.
-Despite being a European...she's not really that smart, the accent seems to fool everyone around here. She said as much herself.
-When you really listen, and let a woman talk, she will tell you way more about herself than she ever intended. She will tell you how to date her, how to seduce her, how to keep her and how to leave her. Listening is key.
I plan to keep being me...a guy who is busy trying to climb out of lower middle classhood and is pretty cool and laid back and likes to have fun. I plan to keep it professional at work and we'll have fun afterward. I plan on just enjoying it until she leaves for home.
A few details:
-She didn't invite me in, as she lives with her parents while they are here in the states.
-There is no rules at work about dating interns. It's neither frowned apon or cheered on. I personally don't date them, it just ended up being a quasi random drunk hook up...the point is, I wasn't activily gaming her, but I wasn't acting like an AFC like the other coworkers fawning all over her and putting her on a pedestal.
-After having some deep conversations with her...I see she's really just a shy, insecure girl, but she's also a complete freak who loves the D. Apparently she's into bondage and spankings. She likes to present the image of a nice and proper little princess.
-She thinks I'm a bad boy because I'm pretty outspoken at work. I don't tip toe around and I'm ambitious..also I have a slightly checkered past that people have told her about me. I drive a sports car and wear a leather jacket and jeans to work. While everyone else wears corporatewear. I'm in production..we don't have to kowtow to corporate fashion.
-She thought she was too plain and boring for me to be interested in her (I am a 7 on a good day, and I'd put her at 7, but after really getting to know her I see she feels like she's a 4 or 5).
-She was dating another European guy from her country here...but he was completely AFC. Posting constantly on her facebook, inviting her out all the time, constantly trying to get in good with her stepfather..she felt pressured with him. He's a great looking guy, 23 tall athletic, football (soccer) player here in the states on scholarship. I've met him before, he's a good guy.
-She was impressed with my knowledge of her country and customs. I have friends from there.
-Despite being a European...she's not really that smart, the accent seems to fool everyone around here. She said as much herself.
-When you really listen, and let a woman talk, she will tell you way more about herself than she ever intended. She will tell you how to date her, how to seduce her, how to keep her and how to leave her. Listening is key.
I plan to keep being me...a guy who is busy trying to climb out of lower middle classhood and is pretty cool and laid back and likes to have fun. I plan to keep it professional at work and we'll have fun afterward. I plan on just enjoying it until she leaves for home.
