"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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FR: 2 approaches at school.

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Well I was at school today and I made 2 approaches.

Approach # 1
So I’m walking around before first period and I talk to these 2 cheerleaders by their lockers.

Me: Hey, so I know you guys are excited for the game tonight.
Girl1: Yeah, I am!
Me: Really? You don’t look too excited.
Girl1: Well, I am excited for it.
Me: Well let me test you to really see if you’re excited. Show me your best game face.
[Girl2 laughs]
Girl1: Well… I don’t know, but I am excited.
Me: Well, I’ll see you guys at the game. If you see me don’t just pass me up though, say something.
Girls: We will.
[I leave]
Girls: Bye!
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Approach # 2
So I was at lunch and I approached this one girl.
Me: Hey! So I know you’re excited for the football game tonight!
Girl: Yeah, I am.
Me: What I can’t hear you speak up.
Girl: Oh I said yeah I am.
Me: So let’s say theoretically you see me at the football game, I want you to say “Hey Mike!” to me.
Girl: I’ll definitely do that!
Me: So you will?
Girl: Yeah! Let’s pinky square on it!
[She puts her pinky out]
Me: What’s pinky squaring?
[I put my pinky and cross it with hers]
Girl: Cool.
Me: Yeah, I do band.
Girl: Really? What do you play?
Me: Saxophone. Yeah, I might say something to you if I see you but I might be too busy.
Girl: Cool.
Me: Well what classes do you have though?
[And she starts ignoring me despite being all interested before, while I talk]
Me: Well, I’ll see you at the game.
Girl: Definitely!
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Pretty good here, although it was pretty weird when the second one turned her head after showing all that interest.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NICE! very well done
 
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Yeah I just wonder why the second set started to ignore, maybe a sh*t test?(SHE intiates kino and interest and then she ignores ME?)
 
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Sounds like the second one went on too long. She was interested and there and then she drifted off. You had that one topic about the game and she was hooked and then you went into classes and maybe thats where it should have stopped. Either way really nice. Did you flirt with any of those girls at the game?
 
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