Found out the hard way

[Wilko]

Twisted little field report to file today. Had N over last night, third date, the agenda was crystal clear, she knew it, I knew it.

Picked her up on my bike, got back to mine, we start drinking, chatting and watching some 'sicker' comedy DVD's from my collection. She's eating it up, we make out, laugh, drink and repeat, we break so I can whip up some risotto, she watches me cook, it turns out perfectly and she gushes compliments.

We resume drinking and periodically making out, we start talking about sex, I am going to monster this girl, it's a certainty, a given, it's happening. About this time she's downing two drinks for every one of mine. Every time I escalate from the lounge to the bedroom, she wants another drink. Hmmm.

It goes on like this, in the end this tiny, 110lb girl puts away 3/4 of a bottle of vodka. Everytime I get her to boiling point she pushes me away and gets another drink. I get bored with her antics, we've been hanging out almost six hours and I'm drunk, tired and starting to find her increasingly irritating.

Then it happens, I lose all interest in f^cking her. She wants to know if she can stay over, I actually remember thinking about another thread where a guy had found himself quite literally "sleeping over", I resolve that is not going to be me. I call her a cab and politely let her know the score, she blows up a little bit but I managed to defuse her.

Of course, she can't apologise enough about the drinking in the morning, but it's too late, I've lost all interest in her. I was actually kind of f^cking offended by the idea that she'd need to get that liquored up to f^ck me. I know, her issues not mine, and they're going to stay that way!

 

[Tkman]

Sounds like she's a little nutty, but if shes hot I would do it.

 

[jophil28]

It goes on like this, in the end this tiny, 110lb girl puts away 3/4 of a bottle of vodka. Everytime I get her to boiling point she pushes me away and gets another drink.

Here is a great example of a woman with a "problem" - a drinking problem.
Her need to get plastered was way more important to her than any desire she may have had to be fukked.
Women like this are just problems and will continue to be so..
I am wondering whether Wilco can find the smarts and the self regard to lose her number and invest his time in women who want to sleep with him as much as he wants to sleep with them.

 

[Wilko]

Consider it done Jophil, already tied up the loose ends, deleted contact details and told her not to contact me. Got some other plates going which made this NEXT all too easy. Maybe twelve hours invested all up, no big deal.

Warning signs were there on the second date, reluctance to escalate, aggressive drinking, talked a lot about sex but didn't follow through with any action. Filed for future reference.

And it's on to the next one.

 

[jophil28]

Consider it done Jophil, already tied up the loose ends, deleted contact details and told her not to contact me. Got some other plates going which made this NEXT all too easy. Maybe twelve hours invested all up, no big deal.

Warning signs were there on the second date, reluctance to escalate, aggressive drinking, talked a lot about sex but didn't follow through with any action. Filed for future reference.

And it's on to the next one.

You make me proud, my good man..

She may be given to drunk dialing so plan your reaction, in advance .
Most women cannot conceive of the possibility that a man could reject them, so be aware that rejection often triggers a pursuit . Add a booze dependency and you may have a text stalker on your hands.