"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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found out girlfriend cheated, would u do this?

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pacman254 said:
im a super nice guy to her. all her past relationship supposedly are with as$ho

A woman rarely tells the truth through her words; instead she'll tell the truth through her actions.

One of the most classic lines a woman uses when she doesn't take responsibility for her actions is to place the blame on everyone else.

I'm 99% sure that this girl was cheating on you for a while. However none of that is important, the point to take away from this is the following:

-There's a difference between "a nice guy" and being nice. A nice guy is a fraud, a fake, an imposter; someone who acts unusally "nice" because that's what he thinks the girl he's after wants. In the end, the girl will ALWAYS lose respect for a pushover that she can walk all over.

-Don't stop being "nice," but DON'T be a push-over type of "nice"

-Women who cheat always lie, and women who lie always cheat.

-Stop treating girls like "princesses" and treat them like human beings.

-Always put yourself first before anyone else and never tolerate disrespect.


In this situation, you should walk away and never contact her again in any way, shape or form.





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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Inasmuch as i have read wat d masters have to say, the following is my candid opinion...

The one thing with anger is that when i lose my cool it brings down my self worth and esteem. Cheating...yeah, happens at times, this should mean that you have to step up ur game, rem 'when your game is tight, set your gal loose..if she comes back to you, you were right, if nt, your game needs stepping up'.

What wud i do in your shoes???
I'l treat it like i always do, take a deep breath and as you exhale, permit the issue to go out with the air. When u do that, it does not hurt you anymore, you can even see her and smile at her. The master DJs will tell you 'a classy female friend can come in handy'. Usually this drives people crazy..they provoke me, expecting me to cause a tsunamic bt all they will fill is a cool breeze as a result of my smile...

You treatd her as a princess...hmmm...i did that and i still do. I have no problem with treating deserving gals as princesses bt the difference is that while before i was the cobler, now im the king (thanks to bondjamesbond i think. (search 4 his thread, it wil teach you more)). She fell out of your favour coz of her misbehaviour, dont banish her from court, just elevate another person above her.
Concluding, i would ask you "if a fish after nibble at your hook goes to another leaving you without bait what would you do?"
ans:wind up your line and hook, bait it again and throw it futher into the river...afterall there are bigger fishes that are hungry. Let sosauve be your bait and the world be your river.

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pacman254 said:
girlfriend broke up with me, then found out shes cheating. Confronted her with the nastiest email possible. She doesn't respond, which as i expected. I just felt like i needed it off my chest.

feels like i need more revenge for some reason. just mad piss she did that to me after i treated her like a princess

What would u guy do? not give a sh!t or confront her anyway.

That is the problem there... you put her on pedestal and she got bored being treated good. Why do you think girls usually stay with jerks..
 
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