For a while now, I've never been really happy. Even at times, I would find myself depressed. I couldn't figure out why. So a few days ago, I reread the DJ Bible and watched some of RSD Flawless Natural. Then it hit me...the reason why I wasn't happy is because I was so focused on myself and my flaws that I was blind to everything around me. It also made me self conscious and shy.
I figured out that if I focus my mind on everything around me and rarely on myself, it'll take the ease off me and open me up to others. I did just that and I naturally started meeting people everywhere I went and I loved it. Socializing with people makes me happy. I also started to be a lot nicer and have a positive outlook on things. When I'm happy / positive, it radiates from my body language and others notice it as well. People respond positively to it and become a lot more comfortable.
Prior to this, I rarely smiled unless speaking to someone so I probably looked unapproachable. Now I walk around with a little glow on my face and kinda smile w/ my eyes and elevate my energy within.
I recommend people to watch RSD Flawless Natural. It basically explains how to get yourself in the right mindset. Inner game is key to anything...if you don't have inner game, you have nothing. Its you're core. If you feel great, others will sense it. Also, when you have that heightened energy and positive outlook / carefree attitude, nothing can stop you. I realized I took life to seriously and needed to loosen up. I was too focused on my looks, that I hid away my personality. A great personality is better than great looks. I used to walk around wondering what people thought of me. I changed that to walking around and acknowledging others and trying to find out about them.
Next time you're feeling down or shy. Try to change your inner energy levels. Put a smile on your face and loosen up. You'll feel a lot happier.
When you're in the right state of mind, you'll have natural game. You could say anything and it won't matter because you feel great and nothing can bring you down. But more than likely, when you're in the right mindset, you'll be surprised at how good your game is.
I figured out that if I focus my mind on everything around me and rarely on myself, it'll take the ease off me and open me up to others. I did just that and I naturally started meeting people everywhere I went and I loved it. Socializing with people makes me happy. I also started to be a lot nicer and have a positive outlook on things. When I'm happy / positive, it radiates from my body language and others notice it as well. People respond positively to it and become a lot more comfortable.
Prior to this, I rarely smiled unless speaking to someone so I probably looked unapproachable. Now I walk around with a little glow on my face and kinda smile w/ my eyes and elevate my energy within.
I recommend people to watch RSD Flawless Natural. It basically explains how to get yourself in the right mindset. Inner game is key to anything...if you don't have inner game, you have nothing. Its you're core. If you feel great, others will sense it. Also, when you have that heightened energy and positive outlook / carefree attitude, nothing can stop you. I realized I took life to seriously and needed to loosen up. I was too focused on my looks, that I hid away my personality. A great personality is better than great looks. I used to walk around wondering what people thought of me. I changed that to walking around and acknowledging others and trying to find out about them.
Next time you're feeling down or shy. Try to change your inner energy levels. Put a smile on your face and loosen up. You'll feel a lot happier.
When you're in the right state of mind, you'll have natural game. You could say anything and it won't matter because you feel great and nothing can bring you down. But more than likely, when you're in the right mindset, you'll be surprised at how good your game is.
