"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Found a total cutie from MySpace I went to high school with, how can I get her?

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so I was browsing through MySpace and came across this one girl who I went to high school with...she was alright looking then but I wasn't feeling her...but now she's turned into a total cutie and it seems like we have a lot in common (stuff we've been through over the past year)...so he blog goes on about how she can't find a decent guy and how she's alone, blah blah...and I totally relate to that because I'm also looking to get into a LTR. I really want to make a move on this girl but I have no clue what to do, especially since I never talked to her during high school. Can anyone offer any suggestions on how to make a favorable initial contact with her and get her to go out with me? I want to send her a message/email/whatever through there but I'm not quite sure what to write, I wanted to say something like we both have a lot in common, have changed a lot since high school and are both looking for the same thing romantically, but I thought that would sound a little gay.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hunterchilla

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well dont do what I did lol, I found my old high school OBSESSION, and messaged her " I had a huge crush on you back in high school do you remember me at all "

lol we became friends but when I finally asked to meet up besides myspace, i got shot down quik! so dont make that mistake, anyway good luck
 
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There are numerous posts on myspace pickups, since you didin't know her back in the day you'll have to start from scratch in this way. Don't indicate that you're looking for an LTR, she is and thats all thats necessary. Just say you wanna hang out, after you've dialogued a bit on MS.
 
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LOL I'm in the same boat. I just want to **** her though. I could care less about becoming her friend.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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myspace is awesome

and to all you guys who say it's "bad" for dating and pickups, you all need to step up
 
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^^Why should I bother being glued to a computer screen whereas I can step out of my front door and meet new people?

I only go only to quickly browse or to kick someone's ass in a game.
 
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