"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Found a girl online, she wants to meet me

Vikman

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Here's up what happened. I met a girl on a dating website. We talked a lot online. Exchanged photos. Video chat. Phone chat. We're getting really close and everything is fine. I can tell she wants me, it's obvious. She wants to meet. The problem is I'm away at college and I won't be returning home till next week. Until then, what should I do with her? Just talk? If so how and what?

Then when I return home, where should I take her out? Those who've done online dating, this is where I could use your help
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I don't see the point in not talking to her until next week. Keep in touch and build comfort/rapport online, keep things sexual and **** her when you meet her.
 

Bible_Belt

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She has built you up in her head to be Mr Perfect. All you have to do is not screw it up. The date you take her on is not as important as being able to get her alone afterward.
 
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