"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Found a girl online, she wants to meet me

Vikman

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Here's up what happened. I met a girl on a dating website. We talked a lot online. Exchanged photos. Video chat. Phone chat. We're getting really close and everything is fine. I can tell she wants me, it's obvious. She wants to meet. The problem is I'm away at college and I won't be returning home till next week. Until then, what should I do with her? Just talk? If so how and what?

Then when I return home, where should I take her out? Those who've done online dating, this is where I could use your help
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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worship

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I don't see the point in not talking to her until next week. Keep in touch and build comfort/rapport online, keep things sexual and **** her when you meet her.
 

Bible_Belt

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She has built you up in her head to be Mr Perfect. All you have to do is not screw it up. The date you take her on is not as important as being able to get her alone afterward.
 
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