"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Forum idea: Money, Investing, and Professions

MacArthur

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Love and Money.

I'm surprised how little talk there is on SoSuave about money. Prostitution is the oldest profession, sex for money. Some might even say all relationships fit into that pattern.

Most members of congress are millionaires.

What is the #1 issue married couples fight about? Money.

I'd like to propose a forum where we can talk about making money. I recently learned that one of the first ways Arnold Schwarzenegger made money when he arrived in the U.S. was through a mail-order business, something related to bodybuilding I believe. Others might make money in sales, cars, insurance, etc.

Still others might make money through making porn videos or doing real estate deals. There are a lot of ideas out there.

Some related topics would be: Is anyone out there in the solid waste indsutry (some locals have made huge fortunes in trash)? Where do you think the stock market will be at the end of the year? What is the job outlook for high-tech, are all the jobs going to India?

Some ideas related to professions would be: How can I get into international private banking? Is anyone here an aerospace engineer? A doctor? A nurse? (decent money with much less training and liability than a doctor, from what I've heard)

Let's face it, we all know that women want money (among many other things), so let's talk about it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Eternal

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If that were to happen, the forum would be called "Advice from STR8UP."
 

Templeton

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This is a great idea for a new forum in my view. Especially if it did indeed contain professional information (careers, economic trends, industry outlooks etc) as well as money and finance.
 

MacArthur

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Thanks, I think there is a lot to talk about.

Where to find fun summer jobs.
Do you like your job?
How to deal with the boss, etc.
Personal finance stuff, getting out of credit card debt, etc.
Insurance, all types

Even just a place to vent, about customers, co-workers, bosses, commute times, etc.

Or even sense of purpose topics, i.e. what do I want to do with my life? how does 8+ hours per day in an office plus 2 hours in the car each day sound? how about peace corps. surely someone on the board has been in peace corps.

I see it something like a Health and Fitness forum. If you combine looks (health and fitness) and money/ life's work (my proposed forum) and dj skills you have quite a combination.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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jive

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Haven't you read STR8UP's posts? I think the anything else forum is enough for this kind of topic.
 

misunderstood??

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All these topics can easily be brought up (and most have been) in the anything else forum. I doubt a money forum would be created unless the anything else forum get flooded with topics about money and jobs.
 

BWSL2

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I was just about to suggest a forum when Mac beat me to it.

Yes, we do need a money forum. I'll bet there are a lot of posters that would contribute more informative posts if they just had the proper outlet. The Anything Else Forum is OK, but there are tons of separate topics to sort through to get to the $$. I'd rather know what I want and where to find it. Besides, it would reduce the clutter in the Anything Else Forum.

A Money board would be interesting, because there are so many topics concerning it. Real estate, investing, business, sports betting, job interviews, the economy, etc. There's a lot I'd like to learn, and there are those out there (STR8UP, StuartScott, Kaiman, Shiftkey, etc.) that I would like to hear from.

I mean, we have a health and fitness forum. We should definately have a forum on a subject like money. For example, look at askmen.com. They have many different sections, including a power and money. I don't know why this wouldn't be a good idea.
 

SmoothTalker

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Yeah I also think this is a great idea. Of course being a DJ for many is just about the women, but I think it's more a total way of life, and many have talked about getting your whole life in order. Finances should be one of the segments of your life covered here with its own forum in my opinion.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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