"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Forum For The Mental Aspect Of DJing

ABGPlayer

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I think that a forum for the whole mental aspect part should be introduced eg... attitude, NLP, affirmations, creative visualisation, how we are to think, habits of thought to be cultivated you know that kind of thing because then we have all the newbies coming in here starting on the wrong thing and that is how they are to act and enp up feeling uncomfortable doing when the one thing thats supposed to cause action is neglected at first and that is thought. I'm not really suggesting a completely new forum be added but maybe a sub-forum type of thing under the Tips Forum
called " The Mental Stuff" or whatever. it would make things much easier for people to learn and facilitate for their actions. Then a another sub-forum for the 'actions or what we have to do" eg. kino, nouning etc.

its seems as if the information on this site is way too scattered and needs to be organised abit and would help for references.
Maybe other sub-forums can be thought of to keep this place more organised...

also, just refering to what someone else had suggested if a forum just for field reports... i cant remember who exactly it was but they said some thing i totally agreed with and that was that all the old-school guys and founder type of guys post field exercises for us newbies and the guys that do their own thing (fielding) report back to it in this forum... this place has changed since 2001(when i got here) and it was private and more worthwhile posts and tips were being placed here. I agree with most of you, sosuave.com is crawling with newbies posting about stupid $hit ( i would know cuz i was one of them) but i have progressed a bit...

so heres my two cents on the improving of the site by being more organised.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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In case you havent noticed, NLP, affirmations etc are discussed in the Unusual techinques forum.Check that beauty out.....
and we also have Mental Kino..... :rolleyes: :D
 
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