Ok so I've got here a set of warm up excercises to get in state when going out sarging. If you don't care how I came up with this then skip this paragraph.
2 saturdays ago I went out with one of my best wings. It was his last day in the city before he left for college. That night I reached what is called social God mode or as RSD calls it nimbus. Which is just a full natural high, the best state to be in when sarging. Literally no approach anxiety. However the next day, I was not feeling the same way and couldn't reach this state. For the next week I tried to figure out how it was that I reached this. So i tried different things and recalled what it what I did hours before the night i reached full sarge state. As I read more about others that had reached it I found out a few things:
Much like weight lifting, in order to sarge good, you must first warm up.
The best way to warm up is to do things that get you out of your head. Don't think, if you think, you care. Also, if you're not very good, have someone there to push you into sets.
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Formula:
I advise you do the first two steps with a wing. Preferably do the all the steps by challenging each other.
1. Do the funniest loudest noise you can make. IN A CROWD. I do the old YEEEEHHHAAAAW! Yes, try to embarrass yourself.
2. Run backwards. In a public space with people around. Be conscious of the other people please.
By now you should be full of energy and not really caring about what others think. You're getting outside your head.
3. Ok now lets talk to stangers. Start easy. Ask anybody for directions
4. Ask a girl if your clothes match or make you look gay, then high 5 them. Leave. This is to warm up for the next excercise.
5. Say hello to 5 strangers in 5 mins. You're now getting into social mode, people are basically good and nothing to be scared of.
6. Find a set of 3 or more people. Doesn't matter if guys, girls, or mixed. compliment on of them about anything. "Cool shirt!". Make sure its loud enough for everyone to hear you. Then bounce. No time for chit-chat right now god damn it you're on a mission!
7. Go up to someone, and guess their nationality, ask them if you're right. You'll notice you won't shy away when they respond, and they'll notice your social aura. Yeah you're becoming unstopable. Chit-chat a little bit but no boring crap, that only slows you down. Get a # if possible.
8. Most likely you have no AA by now. If you do, its almost unoticeable. Go to a social venue, run a normal opinion opener on the first set you see.
9. Now you feel like the sh.t, almost like you're drunk yet energized and rational. You can go direct to a girl with confident body language and she's probably going to hook. So do it.
10. Now the one challenge that will get you to feel like God if he ever threw a party. The claw. If you don't know what the claw is, it consists of putting one arm around your target and opening. Asking something like "Who are you?" is enough.
2 saturdays ago I went out with one of my best wings. It was his last day in the city before he left for college. That night I reached what is called social God mode or as RSD calls it nimbus. Which is just a full natural high, the best state to be in when sarging. Literally no approach anxiety. However the next day, I was not feeling the same way and couldn't reach this state. For the next week I tried to figure out how it was that I reached this. So i tried different things and recalled what it what I did hours before the night i reached full sarge state. As I read more about others that had reached it I found out a few things:
Much like weight lifting, in order to sarge good, you must first warm up.
The best way to warm up is to do things that get you out of your head. Don't think, if you think, you care. Also, if you're not very good, have someone there to push you into sets.
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Formula:
I advise you do the first two steps with a wing. Preferably do the all the steps by challenging each other.
1. Do the funniest loudest noise you can make. IN A CROWD. I do the old YEEEEHHHAAAAW! Yes, try to embarrass yourself.
2. Run backwards. In a public space with people around. Be conscious of the other people please.
By now you should be full of energy and not really caring about what others think. You're getting outside your head.
3. Ok now lets talk to stangers. Start easy. Ask anybody for directions
4. Ask a girl if your clothes match or make you look gay, then high 5 them. Leave. This is to warm up for the next excercise.
5. Say hello to 5 strangers in 5 mins. You're now getting into social mode, people are basically good and nothing to be scared of.
6. Find a set of 3 or more people. Doesn't matter if guys, girls, or mixed. compliment on of them about anything. "Cool shirt!". Make sure its loud enough for everyone to hear you. Then bounce. No time for chit-chat right now god damn it you're on a mission!
7. Go up to someone, and guess their nationality, ask them if you're right. You'll notice you won't shy away when they respond, and they'll notice your social aura. Yeah you're becoming unstopable. Chit-chat a little bit but no boring crap, that only slows you down. Get a # if possible.
8. Most likely you have no AA by now. If you do, its almost unoticeable. Go to a social venue, run a normal opinion opener on the first set you see.
9. Now you feel like the sh.t, almost like you're drunk yet energized and rational. You can go direct to a girl with confident body language and she's probably going to hook. So do it.
10. Now the one challenge that will get you to feel like God if he ever threw a party. The claw. If you don't know what the claw is, it consists of putting one arm around your target and opening. Asking something like "Who are you?" is enough.