"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Former SLU Volleyball player shot and killed in St. Louis Central West End

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wheres evidence of a hate crime? No matter what races that could be involved in this case, this is just a case of a lowlife killing a poor girl. Quit the baiting brah.
 

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Don't really have an opinion on the racial stuff or hate crime. Two useless pieces of sh*t shot and killed an innocent victim, happens all the time. Can only hope they are repaid somehow, whether in prison or in the after-life.

At least they are off the street. The way I look at it, the victim sacrificed so that the garbage of society like this doesn't kill more people.

Problem with reversing the roles is, have the roles ever been reversed? Show me where 2 white guys have robbed a black girl and shot and killed her and I'll show you 300 other stories just like the one Hustlaz G Thug linked.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Danger, while everyone with a brain sees that Zimmerman was innocent, I can see why that incident would get a little more attention, strictly because of the whole following him, and his dad living in the neighborhood, etc.

I don't know that I've ever seen an article in my lifetime about white people out robbing and killing black people. Sure, Gaylan will find some obscure KKK skin-head dude who killed a black man, but the black on white crime outnumbers it 100 to 1, easily.

And I'd be willing to bet it's the liberal dumbasses who get robbed half the time, flittering around in their flowery world of idealism. Define the irony there, killed by the very thugs they seek to help. Mfers like me are strapped and ready for trouble if it shows up. Scum gonna scum.
 
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