"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Forgotten Tactic - Competition

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When a woman suspects you have other options, she will reward you with dinner and sex.

Whether or not other suppliers exist in your market, you must subtly let the woman perceive its presence. In order to compensate for competition, she must offer more value to you. Her standards on you drop along with her expected returns.

The beauty of it lies in her thought process. Every unreturned/delayed response from you issues a ticket into her imagination. She will be thinking of you more, wondering what you are up to and who you are with. Her emotions will lead to infatuation.

Subtlely apply this strategy

Cut the date short
Repeat something a female friend said
End conversations quickly
Point out fancy restaurants
Leave a bra in your room
Just kidding - you get the picture!

Be Indifferent
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mostly agree, think her interest level will rise, but I don't think she will reward you with dinner and sex just because she thinks you talk to other girls. I know girls who know I've been out with super hot girls, they could care less.

I used to do delayed unreturned response thing, but think its too high school. It has also lost me a couple of models who were into me. Pretended I was busy and wouldn't reply for a few days, they moved on fast.
 

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Trump said:
I used to do delayed unreturned response thing, but think its too high school. It has also lost me a couple of models who were into me. Pretended I was busy and wouldn't reply for a few days, they moved on fast.
A few days?! Unless you're in a coma or an astronaut, nobody is THAT busy, so it's really obvious what you're doing. A few hours every now and then can be effective.
 
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Trump said:
Mostly agree, think her interest level will rise, but I don't think she will reward you with dinner and sex just because she thinks you talk to other girls. I know girls who know I've been out with super hot girls, they could care less.
That was from my recent episode. If they have good interest, it makes them try harder.
I used to do delayed unreturned response thing, but think its too high school. It has also lost me a couple of models who were into me. Pretended I was busy and wouldn't reply for a few days, they moved on fast.
Hot women have vast options, losing interest after a couple of days shows you weren't high on their list.
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A few days?! Unless you're in a coma or an astronaut, nobody is THAT busy, so it's really obvious what you're doing. A few hours every now and then can be effective.
Mixing up the response time is pretty effective. Sometimes respond right away, sometimes in a couple hours, sometimes in a couple of days. Depends on the context. If a woman loses interest after a couple of days, she didn't have much to begin with.
 
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