"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Forgotten Name!

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Hey people,

I have a problem and maybe it's happened to you before. I met this girl last Friday night. I was walking down the street and I noticed her crying. At first I just kept going but I remembered all the stuff I have read here in the last few days. Anyways I decided to go back and talk to her. We talked for an hour and I got her smiling. After about an hour it was a "different" kind of smile and I could tell that she was into me. Anyways I got her number and she wen't home. That was 2 days ago. I told her I would call her and I really want to but I forgot her name.

Here's where I have two questions.

1. Could I use this as "I have many girls names to remember and I forgot yours" to propose my self as a challenge or will this go terribly wrong.

and

2. How would I go about calling her without knowing her name...

I don't want to pass this chick by because she was like a 9.5 on my scale. Also if it doesn't work out I am still interested in being friends with her. So it is important that I don't just pass her by.

Any help is greatly appriciated.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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BWSL2

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Honesty is the best policy. Be straight with her. Asking her full name might be a good idea-if you think your name is funny, you might say something about that and then ask how hers sounds.
 

LikRetsam

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Well, if it's the home phone number and you land on someone else, it's safe to say "May I speak with the lovely teenage girl?"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ronny_Neumonic II

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
Well, if it's the home phone number and you land on someone else, it's safe to say "May I speak with the lovely teenage girl?"
What if she has a sister?? To be honest...you fuked up dude. You're either gonna have to straight out ask her for her name or else just not bother...I like the 'ask her for her full name' idea..
 

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To prevent this from happening in the future, you might want to get in the habit of writing the girl's name down along with her number.
 

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Originally posted by BWSL2
Honesty is the best policy. Be straight with her. Asking her full name might be a good idea-if you think your name is funny, you might say something about that and then ask how hers sounds.
PSYCHE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Do what Metal said.
 

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Yea,

I called her, and she wasn't to thrilled that I forgot her name. The convo went great and she made it clear that I should call her again though.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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kevbo

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bigbrent's idea's alright, but don't say you got nervous. obviously, it's good to portray confidence, and that would kinda do the opposite.
 

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Yeah, the nervous thing is a big no no. Bad idea, very bad. But the "what's your name?No, I mean your full name" is a godsend. I have an awful memory for names....:eek:
 

Kourt

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The "what's your name? No, I mean your full name" is definatly a godsend. I meet so many women at the bar and it gets really hard to keep whos who straight. I'lll be using that for sure, thanks guys
 
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