Met this girl at dance class, she's been coming regularly once a week this month, and I've been putting the moves on her and juicing her up in class. Smokin body, ok face, terrific mind (so I found out). Anyway, so I finally sort of waited outside after class pretending to be on my cell until she walks out. I casually walk up as if it was coincidence, say hi, start chatting and end up walking her back to her home. It was a truly phenomenal walk-date. She is adorable. umm... the chemistry was so thick that I forgot to get her contact when we got to her house I did kiss her goodbye instinctively on the cheek (it is becoming an odd habit, I kissed a girl I hate on the cheek yesterday because I met her on the street and I hadn't seen her in two years).
I feel like a chump now. I noticed Obsidians post below, and I have the same problem. I don't have much experience with number closing. Actually it doesn't occur to me at all to ask for the number in most cases. I really enjoy in-the-moment conversations so much that it doesn't hit me until later that I may not see that person again. I'm gonna have to work on it consciously now.
I got away with a life in this situation because I will most likely see her again next week. Hopefully the waiting will work to my advantage, else I got no one to blame but me. Have to tighten up the game.
I feel like a chump now. I noticed Obsidians post below, and I have the same problem. I don't have much experience with number closing. Actually it doesn't occur to me at all to ask for the number in most cases. I really enjoy in-the-moment conversations so much that it doesn't hit me until later that I may not see that person again. I'm gonna have to work on it consciously now.
I got away with a life in this situation because I will most likely see her again next week. Hopefully the waiting will work to my advantage, else I got no one to blame but me. Have to tighten up the game.