"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Forgot girlfriend's birthday.

Greasy Pig

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Hey guys, I put my GF's birthday in my calendar for Saturday but I just found out it's actually today.
Tried calling her but she rejected the call. Sent her an apologetic text explaining the screw up and she replied she didn't want to talk because she doesn't know what to say. Obviously not happy.
We've been together exclusively for about a year so this is the first birthday of hers I've had to deal with.
Should I let her cool down or try to keep contacting her?
Cheers boys.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sharkbeat

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?? You apologized. Nothing else to do on your part. It's her problem for not accepting your apology. You are not here to cave to her emotion.

Move on. Keep open dinner/lunch plans in case she contacts you back.
 

Desdinova

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It might be a bit difficult, but you have to leave her alone for maybe a couple of days. You put effort into resolving it by apologizing for the error and explaining what happened. Now it's her turn to work at resolving it. If she doesn't put effort into resolving this petty issue, then she's going to make a lousy long term girlfriend.
 

Greasy Pig

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I knew my brothers here would say that and glad I per-empted it.
Took her about an hour of radio silence from me before she started blowing up my phone and cracking jokes via text.
Her initial unreasonable reaction is disturbing though. Mental note taken.
Fvck I love So Suave.
It wasn't so long ago that I would've been begging for forgiveness and throwing myself at her mercy.
"Red pill" Greasy Pig stayed calm and rationalised that any overly negative overreaction on her part was her problem, not mine.
I was just worried that my indiscretion warranted more than one sincere apology but in my gut I knew it wasn't a massive deal.
Thanks fellas.
 
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