Forgivness with Girls

[English_Bloke]

Im writing this post because I found out one of my Prom choices screwed me - its that time of year again! Sucks doesnt it? This is not just about Prom (luckily I have a backup girl) but this is about relationships in general. So I have two options:

Forgive her and countinue talking and building rapport with her - may get something later, but feels like being a tool

or

'Be a man' and put her in her place: 'I have no time for you, I have too much other game -close the interest with her.

What is the best option? The first one seems AFC to me but may give a chance, the second option would be the opposite of being tooled but would drop her.

I think about one situation I was in:

My girl went out with another guy a week before going to Florida - I was p1ssed and could have ended it, instead I made up with her and got laid in florida with her.

I forgave her and got what I wanted, if I had not forgiven her and broke up than I would have been doing cold approaches at the mall for spring break!

Is there a third option, how do you guys usually respond?

 

[Dante3214]

To be honest dude, it seems you would have to pick whichever one "feels" right.

1: Will you still feel like a tool after on? Will it last?


2: Are you okay with putting people in their place? Would it release any stress?



I wouldn't know what to do either, but I hope you choose wisely.

 

[Blackdragon5095]

You forgive people because you don't wanna walk around life holding some hate that happened 30 years ago. When a girl rejects you it's not your lose. It actually teachs you, when you got screwed over you just got another brick to your world to build.

But remember even if you get laid by the chick who scrwed you over, make sure you make her pay for what she did. If a girl breaks a rule she suffers the pain.

 

[True Wolf]

On my most humble opinions, i say this chick gets just what she deserves, not what she wants. I'm willing to bet she's attractive, and because of that she'll be expecting to be forgiven, and when that doesn't happen, she'll lose her cool, and there is a good chance that she'll go out of her way to "make things right" or in other words, "get you under the leash again" so basically, you could forgive her, and work you way into her pants. Maybe. But that leaves a good shot of losing too. Or, you can put some justice out there, give her the cold shoulder, and if she has any decency, she'll beg you for a second chance.

 

[English_Bloke]

Sounds good to me...Blackdragon made a good point about holding revenge - I have a tendancy to grow revenge and then it pulls my game down. Bad thing. So naturally I like the idea of Wolf's cold shoulder idea, I can do that feeling pretty good.

Is there anypoint in sitting down with the girl and being open without being AFC or is it all games? Becuase I got alot of games I can play with her and she'll be begging for me by the end :yes:

 

[Damian]

The best tactic to use when breaking off relationships with women that you have beef with is to slowly reduce contact. The process takes a painless one or two weeks of slowly progressing from AIM, SMS, Phone, conversations, and so on until there is little to no contact. It will produce one of two results: 1. The girl will be so intrigued by this pull-back that she will become increasingly obsessed with you 2. You will simply and gently drift apart. After a few days, you can just go back to greeting her as a friend. This is also a great time to decide of you would let her come back if she does.

-Damian