“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Forget the "tricks" get chicks talking about themselves.

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Dudes are always looking for some new "trick" or "act" to run on chicks and complaining about their nonsense.

The best way to meet many and get them interested in you is to NOT lie. You tell them things straight up as if you don't mind if they decide not to go further.

Also and most important is to have a lot of different interesting things to talk about and ASK THEM about.

I've done it not only myself but have seen a friend I hang out with a lot who does many things and talks to chicks about every damn thing under the sun. He'll get them to open up, is knowledgeable in different subjects, talks to them but mostly listens and keeps asking them questions. Dude gets deep into their minds,talking about them their families etc. and he has no idea about pick up or so suave etc.

You really have to be well rounded when meeting chicks and talking to them ASKING them questions and getting them to talk their azzes off.

The more they see you are interested in them as a person and not just some dude trying BS, running weak game and have nothing to talk about but hooking up etc. I swear these chicks want you even more.

Get hobbies, talk about all different things. Chicks eat that sht up and they'll ask for your numbers.
No joke.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I like what you're saying here. I think being well rounded (mentally, not physically of course) is a true hallmark of a Don Juan. When I envision the perfect DJ I always picture the "Most Interesting Man in the World" from those Dos XX commercials. Of course it's just a goof and meant to be humorous but he does demonstrate some extreme coolness. Being able to converse well, on a variety of subjects, will ALWAYS trump stupid routines and canned pick up lines. Be a sponge my friend, absorb as much info as you can.

Also I love that part about your friend. Listening is critical! Often we're too concerned with what we are going to say next. By asking questions and listening it takes some of the pressure off you and the whole time she's talking she'll be feeding you ammo to keep the conversation rolling. Besides what do all women have in common? They never shut up!!

Good stuff Ninja.
 

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That Jaeger guy is about to come on here and start ranting about how women don't need to be well rounded to get a bf.

Giving women importance and attention can lead to two things - either they fvck you or they just use you for emotional support (if they have no interest).
 

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apprenticedj said:
I like what you're saying here. I think being well rounded (mentally, not physically of course) is a true hallmark of a Don Juan. When I envision the perfect DJ I always picture the "Most Interesting Man in the World" from those Dos XX commercials. Of course it's just a goof and meant to be humorous but he does demonstrate some extreme coolness. Being able to converse well, on a variety of subjects, will ALWAYS trump stupid routines and canned pick up lines. Be a sponge my friend, absorb as much info as you can.

Also I love that part about your friend. Listening is critical! Often we're too concerned with what we are going to say next. By asking questions and listening it takes some of the pressure off you and the whole time she's talking she'll be feeding you ammo to keep the conversation rolling. Besides what do all women have in common? They never shut up!!

Good stuff Ninja.
I swear to God I went out with my friend a few weeks ago not even looking for chicks..Went to a bar after having Sashimi and I was just chillin being in my quiet mode relaxing having a drink.

He started talked to three chicks who were about 26. One married. Dudes 40 years old. Does look and dress good.

I sht you not we were Bsing with them the whole night till 2am. (Now these chicks were slores but that's besides the point.) I could give two chts about them and had to get up early. Wasn't in the mood even though two of them were about 7s. One was a 6.

My friend was going deep on all these chicks. Had them talking about their lives, families, one of them's husband, areas visited etc.

By the end of the night..We were outside alone by the water. One chick asked me "What's the deal with your friend?" the other married chick wanted him FVCKING BADLY to the point she was BEGGING him to become her FB. the other chick was bi and was down for us all to hang out right then at her place. ALL THREE of them were on the dudes jock so bad it was insane! I swear if my friend wasn't married he have been able to fvck all three in a orgy that night. They didn't care!

Then again he didnt care either nor did I and we literally blew them off and walked to my car while the married chick was saying: You don't know what you're missing!

Never seen three chicks who were all together at 26 want a dude who's 40 that bad at the same time. It was berserk. We were laughing about it in the car!

Anyway...Yeah it's insane. If you hit them with topics and get them talking and at times throw in sexual undertones on a quick topic they eat that sht up. LISTEN and get them to keep INVESTING by telling you more and more about themselves.

If you get them telling you everything under the sun it's less likely they'll remember to lie and more likely they'll be more interested in you as they'll see you as genuinely interested in them besides some h0rny freak running the same sht as everyone else.
 

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I cannot count the number of women I've opened with 'tell me about yourself' or 'what's your story'.

After all, you've asked them to talk about their favorite person.
 
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