"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Forget OkCupid, forget POF, forget CL... I would like to introduce u to CouchSurfing

Dust 2 Dust

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What is the screening process used before allowing these women to stay at your place? Can you see photos? Do you only allow single women traveling alone to stay at your place? Have you ever been robbed? I would think it would only be a matter of time before someone gets killed doing this and the feds shut it down.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dedication

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Dust 2 Dust said:
What is the screening process used before allowing these women to stay at your place? Can you see photos? Do you only allow single women traveling alone to stay at your place? Have you ever been robbed? I would think it would only be a matter of time before someone gets killed doing this and the feds shut it down.
I thought you were asking pretty insightful questions, then this comment pops up :eek:
 

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Um.. its like Air BnB. People leave references if they were good or terrible guests.
I had heard of bad stories of bad male hosts towards female guests (not a surprise)... but besides that I didnt hear any bad news.
 

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I agree with everyone

these girls are a lot looser than you think, unless they crashed at your place for a month each and THEN slept with you.

however, this idea is pretty clever, it's genius, and props to the OP.

and unless she's a proud and open slut or considering a life in/of the church(and she has to be really young) then you can just assume her number is either

flat out lying

or being disengenuous(define sex as vag pen and nothing else, how many people have you slept with? now define it as either front and/or back? how about now? now definite it as 3rd base and past that, how about now? what is excluded, FBs? college/HS? one night stands? other countries? no one? does it count if you were drunk? high? regretted it? if it was with a friend? etc. these are all ways her number could be wrong without being an outright lie.)

EDIT: knew I forgot stuff

be wary of anyone who's from a third world country, spends a lot of time in one, or goes to them frequently,

being wary means use a rubber(not extra thin, those are for idiots)

also, hide/bolt down your valuables in some way, just in case.
 

Jaylan

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Dedication said:
I thought you were asking pretty insightful questions, then this comment pops up :eek:
What he say is markedly valid.

If someone got killed by some predator using that website, I bet the feds shut it down or start putting background checks around it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When people talk about meeting women in CL or OKCupid nobody bats an eye, when I talk about meeting women in Couchsurfing and everyone loses their mind.
 

Oxide

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Don't worry about a thing tdotseoul , you are doing great and thanks for sharing.

more stories please :)
 

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yeah I think if you went into a little more detail rather than just saying "I banged 5 out of the last 6 women who stayed with me."

Since this is a pretty novel way of doing it, you have to provide details or people will think you're bullsh*tting, as they should.
 

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LOL look at page 1, I wrote a very detailed account on what happened.
For all 6 girls and the now the 7th.

;)
 
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