forget her body language

[lurker]

body language and looking for body language signals to see if a girl is interested in you or what you have to say is all crap.

these are just things thought up by afcs with phds that think they know about women or what women want,
the truth is no one knows what anybody wants .
the sooner you stop reading meaningless body language crap the better youll be with your life .

all you have to do focus on is your own body language and posture.

Forget all that gibberish about girls playing with thier hair if they are interested because i have done my share of researches over the years from my afc times till now and see how ppl interact with each other and to tell you the truth a girl could give you all the right signals twirl her hair all she wants but still dont mean she is interested in you. my advice is go for the kill and whateva happens happens. who cares about all that stuff like if she turns red then she is interested i mean common. girls can show their interest in different ways some who are interested in you can clearly ignore you because they are shy or have issues so i think you shldnt count on bodylanguage as a deciding factor.

or does anyone object? i may be wrong but im sure im right.

 

[JC9]

You shouldn't wait for or rely on body language before making a move on a girl, that much is true.

However, body language is 1000x more valuable to reading a person than any word that leaves their mouth. This isn't just for pickup, but for everything in life.

Getting good at reading body language will help you in every aspect of communication and negotiation.

As it relates to pickup, when you are talking to a girl you can cue in on things that get her more excited or more into state and then start hitting on those conversation points more and more.

Learn to read body language, and do it well. It's what seperates the good from the great in Sales and negotiation and will make you tons better in pickup as well.

 

[logic1]

Object

So, your in a social setting and you catch the unattached long leg blonde by the punch table making eye contact with you along with a genuine smile, Do you just act like it didn't happen or run to the restroom?

 

[lurker]

you guys are somwhat right but you guys seem to be forgetting that some women will display all these signs and still ignore you. an example is a show on mtv called dismissed or come in or something like that.
note how some guys actually do the right things but get dismissed thats just an example. what i think though is that a guy should focus more on his body language.i think its all dowm to preference a woman likes what she likes.

 

[squirrels]

or does anyone object? i may be wrong but im sure im right.

Translation: I want to get into the DJ Bible and get my post 5-starred so all the SoSuave.com nerds think I'm "cool", so I'm going to throw this out there...but OH GOD what if I don't know what I'm talking about?? They will call me AFC and one-star my post!!

I'm not saying it's a good tip or bad tip. I'm saying if you're gonna give a tip, at least PRETEND to be confident in what you have to say. :crazy:

 

[realsmoothie]

I don't know much, but I do know that body language is MONEY.

No, it doesn't work all the time. There's all sorts of factors out there.... girls who throw signals all the time, girls who don't know how to play the game, girls who are shy, girls who are sluts... and so on.

More often than not, you can rely on body language more than words (as someone said above). It's the first thing I've started paying attention to since being on this site, and it's pretty obvious to me.

 

[I love Hyori Lee]

Body Language is important. You cannot ignore it. Just do some kino and see whether she kinos back. Usually, that lets me know.

 

[avrilishot]

Dude, I agree a couple of days ago I was talking with this chick and she did not give me any signs but seemed as if she liked me, so after I got done talking with her I decided to stop looking for signs to see if a girl likes you. like you said just go for it and I agree with you. =)

 

[defiancy]

body language is essential part of DJing, but you have to be careful when using it. You might overanalyze...the girl might be messing with you (AWs). It should never be used to actually determine if you should approach or not, but as a tool just to see where you're at with a girl. Like a gauge to sort of understand where shes at

 

[lurker]

Dude, I agree a couple of days ago I was talking with this chick and she did not give me any signs but seemed as if she liked me, so after I got done talking with her I decided to stop looking for signs to see if a girl likes you. like you said just go for it and I agree with you. =)

thats what im saying most guys dont even talk to women to realize this. or when at a bar or lounge watch how guys interact with girls and see some things for yourselves.
the more you chat to women all over the place, the more you realize that certain gamming methods wont work all all girls and certain girls react differently if they like you or not.

iv had girls been cold to me only to rea;ize they liked me its annoying but thats how it is. i could say some guys only go for girls that give them the right signals i know and to some extent thats safer and you filther the aws but some girls flirth only and expect nothing from it. i also go for girls that give back eye contant thats about it looking to see weather she turns purple or not before you appraoch is to much annalyzing.

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

Body language is #1,but it's not as simple as "she flips her hair,she does A or B".You have to tell the "difference".For an example some girls are very outgoing,friendly,flirty,touchy-feely by nature,if you take her "body language" as IOI's you'll think she wants to sex you right up and crash miserably.One thing physics taught me is that the difference in magnetic flow creates electric tension,you'll think im bsing you but this applies to girls aswell.You have to study your target first,how does she act naturally? If you make an outgoing etc girl silent and intimitaded you're in,on the other hand if you make her over-friendly (like grabbing your ****) then you're in again,you have to create a "difference" to create tension.If a shy,closed girl has an emotional breakdown infront of you (in the way of "i dont want to be so good anymore etc bla bla) you're IN,if she becomes touchy-feely with you then you're IN again.Doesn't matter if its a "negative" or "positive" (as in being less or more happy),the difference in "flow" creates tension.

Read her "state" and try to change it,if it changes,you're IN.