"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Forget FW and get your act together

ricorico

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Lately I have been reading this board and others about guys without game thinking about Foreign women. First off there are tons of FW in this country to go after. But I think many of these guys realize once the girls are in the U.S. even for 1 day,their power of the green card does not apply and the girls are not interested because they have NO GAME!!!.

Do you guys really think FW are the answer? I've been reading some of these FW message boards for years and see so many divorces and guys who have been used because they have no clue about women. They are dellusional and think the problems they have with women are not their fault.There are sites like "Russian women never again", for guys that have been burned. Scammer sites and tons of other sites where guys get a reality check. Women are women everywhere. They all want the best guy they can get in their PRESENT environment.. Then there is some famous Russian women site called "antidate.com where Russian woman complain in their language how much they hate their American husbands and how they plan on leaving him. The poll which states 90% of Russian wives admited to not loving their husbands when they married him.

The guys on the latin boards mostly take a hit and are used by the latinas.,but since they have no game they blame the lady and just go back and get another one. Hoping this time she will stay as clueless to who they are. There is a good article in GQ this month about a guys horror story with some Colombian girl. She ended up being gorgeous alrigh! But also a nutcase. Of course he picked her out of a whole bunch of hot girls he met on his trip.Do you think he just picked the 1 bad one? The Russian and Eastern Europeans are the worst. Guys talk about how they all know to charge you with false Domestic Violence charges if they really do not want to wait the 2 years for the "green card" or how they have figured out the timeline to stay married and get the most they can for alimony or child support. Then there is the famous "730" days(time it takes to get greencard" when half the wives coincidentally realize they want a divorce!!! Too common. I wonder why?

Get real. The guys who do this are "Second rate men" who are are desperate ( I have never seen a good looking confident man have to go so far for a woman unless he is from that country himself ). They head out to a 3rd world country to marry a woman they can barely understand because girls in the U.S. even the foreign ones won't give them the time of day.

As soon as the FW realizes he is a loser to the women in his country she will lose any interest she ever had. Because women are crazy and only want guys other women desire. In a Foreign country you are desirable because you are seen as the rich American so she has to compete to get you. But once in the U.S you will have to compete with other males and you lose your advantage quick!!

I have friends who claim the easist women to nail are foreign women married to American guys. Why? Because women want Alpha males. Not wimps who complain they can't get women in the U.S. You can use the excuse you preffer FW,but truth is they are all over the place. There are Ukrainian communities,latin ones,Asian ones everywhere. There is also the internet with tons of FW living in the U.S. available. But if you have no game, you have to resort to going to 3rd world countries to grab a woman you can barely talk to . Grow some balls!!!

For all the guys who claim the foreign women are different why is it you never meet a guy who is dating rich educated ones that speak English? Just the poor uneducated ones who can't speak the language.They are not different. The rich ones with money will ignore you too because they can afford to be picky! The poor ones can't!!

Read this site. Get yourself together physically ,financially and mentally and date FW in the U.S. if that is your prefference. there are plenty!!!! And quit whinning! It makes you even more unattractive if that is possible!!These women will see you for the losers you are and you will be complaing on the Foreign boards too after 2 years.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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LeviathanIYG

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I only read half your post, in reply I have been to:

- Italy
- Germany
- Croatia
- Sweden
- Russia
- Belarus

The girls are totally different depending on where you travel; it has to do with the culture you are raised in. Woman raised in America/Australia have this false ideal of feminism instilled into their heads from birth. This screws up the balance and gives women a lot of power, that is only one of the very many differences between women of different cultures throughout the world.

If you do spend any time traveling you will realize that different countries produce different types of people. When I was in Croatia I met so many stunningly beautiful HB8,9,10 that were well educated. These girls weren’t anywhere as picky as a your typical Aussie ditzy blonde with average looks.

Foreign women are a lot more interesting to talk to and to spend time with (especially Eastern Europeans), they are more often than not born into a world that offers them no advantage. They have to educate themselves and work really hard just to survive. Social expectations on people from country to country differ therefore producing different types of people.

If anybody visits Eastern Europe you will see 100's of girls that could be super models in America walking the street. These girls will usually be really smart and they would not be anywhere near as judgmental as an American women.

One thing I do agree with is stop concentrating on meeting foreign women just concentrate on meeting quality women.
 

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I was wondering, how does anyone come to the conclusion that these women are "educated" and "intelligent" when they can barely communicate with them? Or are they so dazzled by the woman's looks, that they fail to see her calmly fondling your wallet?

Call me cynical, but when you're raised in a 3rd world country, your #1 priority is MONEY, not being kind and nice.
 

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Leviathan,

The countries you have mentioned (besides Russia)are not the 3rd world countries that have become so popular . The guys complaining about lack of dates in the US are going to counties such as Russia,Colombia,Phillipnes where the women are dirt poor and there is a high rate of prostitution because desperation has set in. In Russia over 50% of high school girls poled said they would be prostitutes if they had no other way to survive. Very telling!!!
When these men go to Russia,they are not dating Russian women with money, but the ones who are educated and poor ,never travelled and as they may earn less than $200 a month and think a guy making $2,000 is rich not realizing how expensive it is to live in the U.S.

You can get a supermodel in Russia. Any guy can. I've seen pics of old decrepid retarted looking guys getting supermodel chicks.But a guy better understand he has to live in that country. Bringing some of these women to the US if you are not an Alpha male yourself is a recipe for disaster as these women get informed real quick they can upgrade and get any type of guys they want.

Back home the shortage of good men made them desperate for any decent guy. Supermodel or not. Desperation and lack of money has a way of making people kinder. Money is a test which brings the true nature of the person to the surface.Once in the states there are an abundance of great guys who know their game. As I previously stated,some of the guys I know target foreign women married to American men as easy lays because these women are looking for the type of men different from the American guys they married. The Alpha male who other women want .

Anyone who thinks a supermodel quality women will settle for "average" once she lives in the U.S. is in for a rude awakening. On all the message boards, the only guys that are able to hold onto that sort of gal are the millionaire ones who give the girls whatever they desire. The guys sort of admit the financial aspect is part of the success of their marriage.Not much different than AW. Probably why guys who travel marvel at how sweet these women are. But if they are so sweet,why not target them in the U.S. and date foreign born women here? Because Foreign women once in the U.S. become picky too!!!The reason is in their country they have little choice and you are seen as the exotic rich American. A rich man is always welcome in a poor man's home to court his daughters" They will treat him with kindness,pride and respect. A poor man is unwelcome in a rich man's home to court his daughters. They will treat him with contempt and disrepect. Same situation happens in poor countries. They think you are rich and treat you with great respect until they find out otherwise.
 

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LeviathanIYG said:
When I was in Croatia I met so many stunningly beautiful HB8,9,10 that were well educated. These girls weren’t anywhere as picky as a your typical Aussie ditzy blonde with average looks.

That's because she'll sell you to this crazy butcher who has a buissiness dedicated to giving satisfaction to people by killing other people, like you.


On subject, women ARE different in different countries. But, at the end of the day, a pimp is a pimp in Antartica and Japan, a ho is a ho in Mexico and in Serbia, a successful, wise man is succesful and wise in Canada and in Germany.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thank you! I'm tired of reading these posts about how horrible American women are or whatever. It's just a bunch of excuses and incessant whining. I don't have all the answers but I can admit that my problems with women are all my fault and not the women's fault. Each and every individual has the power to change and make themselves more attractive so that they can meet better women.
 

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diplomatic_lies the Croatians I met were well educated because they knew how to speak English amongst their other languages and you could have intelligent conversations with them. They were for the most part very witty to.

My bad I didn't read enough of his post to understand what he was saying. I do agree with you, If you go to a foreign country to get married and bring her over here it is a pretty stupid move. Unless you got a lot of game, looks or money.
 
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