Anyway first off, forget making EC...that's important later. Hoping to magically make EC immediately with a girl isnt easy, especially if they are the types that are easily intimidated by a guy...the ones who cant look a guy straight in the eyes and smile back. ill bet most guys here have had women break EC or made no EC half the time because they were afraid of rejection...again this relates to how guys/girls reject the other person first because of fear or being rejected.
The ultimate weapon im talking about is body language.
Let's say you're in the subway station/ bookstore, you see a chick you like.
you check her out, you give that girl a 'i want you bad' kind of look with a smirk/smile, focus your eyes on her face and her eyes in an attempt to make EC...no matter where her eyes go.
Odds are she is already intimidated, however if she's interested (and near you), she'll make an attempt to flip her hair/get flustered and look at you from the side of her eyes (if not directly), and other forms of IOI.
However if she's a good distance, she will come near you and pretend to be looking at books/etc, or just stand near you.
At this point, even if you dont get EC from her, it's safe to make a move and break the ice. I'm not sure how well this advice will work with others, but personally i do this quite often and do get success. The more shy a girl is, the better this works.
Things to keep in mind:
- Must be a specific way of looking at them, obviously if you have a stalker/homicidal look, it wont work.
- Must be used in conjunction with body language. What are your arms/hands doing, are you leaning against something or standing?
How do you carry yourself?
- dont foget to smile
The ultimate weapon im talking about is body language.
Let's say you're in the subway station/ bookstore, you see a chick you like.
you check her out, you give that girl a 'i want you bad' kind of look with a smirk/smile, focus your eyes on her face and her eyes in an attempt to make EC...no matter where her eyes go.
Odds are she is already intimidated, however if she's interested (and near you), she'll make an attempt to flip her hair/get flustered and look at you from the side of her eyes (if not directly), and other forms of IOI.
However if she's a good distance, she will come near you and pretend to be looking at books/etc, or just stand near you.
At this point, even if you dont get EC from her, it's safe to make a move and break the ice. I'm not sure how well this advice will work with others, but personally i do this quite often and do get success. The more shy a girl is, the better this works.
Things to keep in mind:
- Must be a specific way of looking at them, obviously if you have a stalker/homicidal look, it wont work.
- Must be used in conjunction with body language. What are your arms/hands doing, are you leaning against something or standing?
How do you carry yourself?
- dont foget to smile