"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Foreplay, broads that like "to be abused." LOL

spiegel549

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Ever been with a chick that says to you "I like to be abused." In a flirty sexual way and then starts deep throating your ****? LOL...

I recently encountered this new girl (different from my previous posts) that apparently loves when I throw her around the room. Grabbing her head and forcing her to deep throat and gag. She likes getting man handled around, pulling her around the room by her hair, flipped around and smacked in the face (lightly).

Have any of you encountered a broad like this? I was very very lightly choking her and she recently grabs my hand and makes me REALLY start choking her HARD LOL...Say this is a chick you are looking to get into a LTR down the road, how far is to far when you are in the bedroom? Is it harmless?

Don't get me wrong I would NEVER hit a woman outside the bedroom, but as far as bedroom dominance goes the question is what determines why she enjoys being dominated? Why do women like men to toss them around and make them gag, get smacked etc?

Stories? Opinions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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:nervous: Wow sounds like my type of woman


Women naturally like this, I have pulled hair,choked when hitting from the back, even slapped during missionary

Even though like yourself I never did this outside the bedroom, women love it in the bedroom
 

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Fatal Jay said:
:nervous: Wow sounds like my type of woman


Women naturally like this, I have pulled hair,choked when hitting from the back, even slapped during missionary

Even though like yourself I never did this outside the bedroom, women love it in the bedroom
Yeah bro its ****ing hot as hell. 90% of the women I have slept with ONS or LTR girlfriends were always so "timid" in the bedroom. I ALWAYS wanted a chick that looks me in the eyes and say "**** the **** out of me." then forces me to choke her LOL...

I was taken back by it a bit (still didn't stop me from doing it) haha but yeah.

I would love to hear some stories if you guys have any!!!
 

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In my experience on this earth dealing with the opposite sex i have found that just about all women are sluts lol. your woman is nastier than you would ever imagine. that goes for me as well.


it's your job to bring it out of them. you don't want to bring it out too soon, you don't want a nasty girl to be everyone's nasty girl. but you want your girl to be down for whatever.

whatever the nastiest (non bizzare) **** you have ever considered doing with a woman i assure you she's probably fantasized about something 3x worse.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You have encountered a woman who derives pleasure from being handled roughly. That's actually a rather common thing among women who are sex addicts.

If she likes oral that much in that way than you can bet she likes other types of non-vaginal sex as well.

On another note, this may not be a woman you want to bring home to mom and pop. But that depends how respectable she is with you outside of being an aggressive horndog with her, so there are exceptions.

She could also be a psycho b1tch, but not necessarily. There are women who love this and are as sweet as the girl next door sort of girl.
 

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Thanks guys for all the responses!
 

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rgeere said:
You have encountered a woman who derives pleasure from being handled roughly. That's actually a rather common thing among women who are sex addicts.

If she likes oral that much in that way than you can bet she likes other types of non-vaginal sex as well.

On another note, this may not be a woman you want to bring home to mom and pop. But that depends how respectable she is with you outside of being an aggressive horndog with her, so there are exceptions.

She could also be a psycho b1tch, but not necessarily. There are women who love this and are as sweet as the girl next door sort of girl.
True dat, brother... True dat.
 

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spiegel549 said:
Ever been with a chick that says to you "I like to be abused."?
All of them? It's just a matter of degree.

All sex has some component of dominance and submission, it's a fundamental part of it. Whether or not she's a "nice girl" really has nothing to do with it. Not all girls are going to like being slapped around, but I have yet to meet one who doesn't at least like her hair pulled and her @ss smacked.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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