"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Foremost approach mentor/coach

thelittleprince

Don Juan
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Who is the foremost mentor or coach in the approach game?

I'm kinda not really interested in this from the perspective of getting a girlfriend.

In fact, I dont even want a girlfriend.

I'm just on a mission to face fear in areas of my life I know I'm inexperienced in.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DEEZEDBRAH

Master Don Juan
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Rsd Tyler. Dudes wackkk and funny looking yet, shows how good you can get if you go through the fire.

Mystery. A OG and pioneer of pickup. Identified gender dynamics. MM is dated but aspects are still relevant now (IOIs, proximity, 3sec rule, dhv, compliance etc).

Rsd julien. Since being kicked off planet earth, he's pivoted to Self help. 10 game is a banger.to date, there's nobody i ever seen IRL who is better. Maybe its changed now.

Pull from every source. See what works. David D is a OG.
 
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