"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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whats the deal with foreign women? how do they see us american boys?

there is this super hot girl in my lecture class. shes seen me looking at her and i've seen her look at me. What I'm attracted to: her skin - beautiful natural dark skin, her hair - thick long brown hair, her voice - its deep. for some reason i like that it is deep (im not gay!) but it's hot. I donno where she is from. She's not arabic, not spanish. maybe from portugal? Do protuguese women have deep voices?

How can I get her to notice me more?

She is extremely studious. So am I though. We both sit in the front of class, but on opposite sides of the room. We won't sit near each other because we are both pussies. well maybe just be. who knows maybe she thinks im staring at her.

What do you guys know about foreign women? Any differencet tactics? I love foreign women!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hope you can cross that language barrier, I actually thought I had a good chance with this one girl I shared a class with, but I think I bombed with the whole communication factor.
 

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Well she speaks english, I mean she has the ability to sit in lecture class and take notes and get A's so I donno...
 

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Its one thing to regurgitate what is spoken, another thing to actually comprehend it.
Not trying to put you off, go for it. Dont mind me, just recounting my own problems :)
 

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Reminds me of the movie Love Actually. You guys seen it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alen-Delon

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FORGET THE DJ BIBLE! FOREIGN CHICKS NEED DIFFERENT APPROACH SPEAKING AS A FOREIGNER. JUST BE YOURSELF ASK HER OUT ON A LUNCH CUP OF COFFE, JUST CHAT GET TO KNOW HER, MAYBE SHES GOT A BF. JUST APPROACH BE COOL ABOUT IT.
 

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"How can I get her to notice me more?"

That's NOT how it works.
That's something a girl would normally say.
You are supposed to "notice" her!
Go-up to her and talk to her.
Then ask her what she likes doing for fun,
then ask her to do one of her favorite activities with you...
 
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